The less typical Aries man?

Question

By now, I've read all about the Aries man in love and lust. "You can't let him know you're fascinated by him", "he doesn't like to compromise and always wants to dominate", "it is important that he can show you off", "it is easy to mistake the Aries man's flirting and attention for affection/attraction, while it's not".

I know astrology is not the book of life, and I also know that the rest of the birthchart influences the whole picture as well, as well as circumstances.

But reading all these things just makes me wonder; is it really all that bad? If you love an Aries man and want the relationship to work, do you have to play games forever? Are all Aries men that high maintenance? I'd like to hear from Aries men who think they aren't the 'typical Aries'.

Also I've noticed that there's a lot of Taurus girls feeling attracted to Aries men (naturally, since Taurus is Venus and Aries is Mars)... yet it supposedly 'always ends bitter' because their 'horns clash'. Can't the horned lovers just agree to disagree on some things out of sheer independence and respect for eachother?

Just a theory.

If you're gonna tell me that astrology is c**p, don't bother. You won't be changing anyone's mind, you won't be adding to the discussion, you will just be reported for spamming (since you're not answering the question).

Answer 1

I was involved with an Aries Man for a little under four years. I thought we were in love and will be together for the rest of our lives.

Well, it seemed he had other ideas. He was flirtatious, and had an eye for beautiful girls, which I didn't mind when we were together. Afterall, as a woman myself, I do look at pretty girls too.

To make a long story short, my piece of advice is this: never ever trust an Aries man. He is a natural flirt, and likes the thrill of 'newness' and will try his hand, or whatever, on new women as long as he can get a positive response, and then he may decide to bail out suddenly from a long-established relationship, and start a new one based on infatuation, and s*x.

Although my Aries man was 'loyal' to me, I always thought  in the back of my mind that if I left him to his devices he will stray in a split of a second.

They are into movie-style romances, and like to play the role of the 'hero', and oh that ego, is so strong at times. It overshadows everything else.

However, when it comes to marriage, they usually marry late in life after they had enough sensual pleasures and left numerous hearts broken. Only then will be stay loyal, and that's probably in their late 40s, 50s or even 60s.

Answer 2

I am a g*y Aries woman so I will answer your question....

Unfortunately it is in my nature as well. BUT...the difference is that I can CONTROL these feelings. Who doesnt wanna be around flirting and playing games. But when you know in your heart that you have a woman who would give the world for you, you kick these feelings out and dedicate to only her because you know that in the end playing games will not make you happy down the road. That this woman who seems to love you so much will be. I just think that most people cannot control themselves because they dont want to. Everyone has choices in life.