The love of your life or your unborn child?

Question

Okay, So i'm reading random stories on Mibba and I came across one that makes me sad ):

Well, This pregnant lady, Dani, gets shot and they can either save the baby and there is a very slim chance that Dani would make it or save Dani and the baby won't make it. The fiance has the decision.

I got to thinking, Okay I would save the love of my life, But when she wakes up she's gonna want to kill herself or something because her baby didn't make it. And than I was like okay, save the baby and try to save her but now i'm just like what would I do you know?

So I have to ask, What would you do?

Answer 1

I would save my baby...they would kill themselves anyway...not that I wouldn't care but the baby has a bigger chance of living, what if you chose to save the mother and the baby dies but could have lived and then she dies anyway? Then you have nothing...

Answer 2

Save Dani and try again.... but being a mother I know I couldn't do that. I would hate to have to make that decision because my daughter and the love of my life are both my number ones and I can't see living without either of them.

Answer 3

i'll save the baby first and then try to see if she makes it

why the baby deserves a chance too live

she already had that chance

Answer 4

It would depend.(If I was even a male) and my partner was pregnant AND we had another child, I would want them to save my partner.Our other child needs his/her mother.

I wouldn't know what to do if we had no kids and she was in that situation.

Answer 5

I didn't read the details (not gonna lie) but your child should be #1 before anything else

Answer 6

i would save dani. in a utopian world, we could save the baby and save dani, but in todays world, attempting to save both of them would probably kill both of them. id hate to be the fiance, though.

Answer 7

wowww,

i have no idea.

honestly; i'd probably just kill myself. I mean how would I decide to either kill my love or unborn child?

Answer 8

save the mom

it will be nothing but pain for the husband if she dies but looks at the baby everyday and is reminded of her

you cant miss what you didnt know

Answer 9

I would definitely give up my life for my child any day

Answer 10

save the lady and live to have another baby

Answer 11

You try to keep both of them alive.

I would do the operation or whatever that would save the baby and know that God would let whatever he wanted to happen to my fiance

Answer 12

You can always try for another baby if the mother survives, but you can't have another child with the love of your life if she is dead. Save the mom.

Answer 13

Save the MOTHER...Since without her the baby will die anyway...depending on how far she is into her pregnancy...Regardless save the Mother First!

Answer 14

I'd save the baby. The baby's blood family & I personally believe that you can have more than one true love in a lifetime. Also, Dani's what, in her early twenties/thirties, she's had a life, one that was obviously filled with love if the love of her life has to decide, and I think the baby deserves that same chance. And, as long as you have the baby, you have a part of Dani herself, because they'd share 23 of the same chromosomes. I also agree with you, that if you saved Dani instead, there'd be a really big relationship roadblock because losing a child is never easy. Speaking of not easy, this question isn't, but I did my best to answer it, though I hope I never have to make this decision.

Although, I'm going to alter my answer slightly. First, I'd determine who has the better chance of surviving. There's no point in saving a baby that's got a 25% chance of surviving because it hadn't been carried full term or something like that. If the mother had the higher survival rate, I'd save her & work through the pain & try for another child.

Answer 15

wife u can make another baby thats not meant to be bad

Answer 16

Save Dani