The mothers instinct?

Question

hiya im 19 with no children an im already feeling the motherly instinct y?

when i was younger i was also told i was good with babys.

the other day i was at a party and i saw some only family friends and i also saw a family friends sisters kid and i felt so protective of him and was worried that the other kid was being a bad influence on him making encourageing him do things he shouldnt and they are only 6.

what can this mean?

Answer 1

I would think it means that you're concerned about others (especially those that are vulnerable and impressionable) and that ONE DAY you'll most likely be a very involved and concerned mother. :)

Part of being an involved and concerned mother is always doing your best to make sure you're doing the right thing for your child.  That includes trying to live YOUR life the way you'll be proud for your child to see and in a way that will serve as an example of how they should live...my point is that you most likely wouldn't want your future child(ren) to have their own child before she'd pursued whatever education she intended to pursue and you most certainly wouldn't wish single parenthood on her, you'd probably want it to be something that she shares with the man she marries (her prince charming! :) that she'll share her life with.  So, if I were you, I'd focus on the direction you'd like your life to go (with or without children), and continue to grow until your future husband comes along...marry him and then together you can plan a child that will be loved and have parents that were emotionally and financially ready to care for him or her.

Take good care.