The person that i love doesn't want to get married, but i in the other hand i do want to get married in 5yrs?

Question

the person that i love said, "why get married when being together is like we are married" all i want is to have my wedding is that so hard to get. he is one of those type that doesnt want to get marry at all.

Answer 1

You can't change some one's mind...the only thing you can change is yourself, and your desires.

If you are unwilling to let go of the desire for a wedding and traditional marriage...it might be a good time to sever ties now.  Don't continue this relationship under the impression that things may change later on.  Don't force your man to get married.   If he were that willy nilly, you probably wouldn't love him the same way.

Answer 2

Maybe he will change his mind in 5 yrs.  In the meantime, you can do and say little things to keep it in his mind so that he doesn't completely forget about it.

Answer 3

Sometimes men say that...what they mean is they don't want to marry you.

I am sorry, but I agree with the other posters. It is probably best to move on and find someone who will want to marry you!

Answer 4

I'd walk away.  You deserve a man who loves you enough to make that ultimate commitment, and pledge his life to you in front of your friends, family and God.

You're worth more than just living together.

Answer 5

hes a player

Answer 6

If this is his life principle, he will not change his mind. It's one of women's biggest mistake to think that a man would change one day, because most of the time that is not the case. If marriage is really what you want, then you want to really think about where you want to go with your life. Either you compromise to his lifestyle or find another man who's aligned with your beliefs.

Answer 7

Then you move on. You two are then not a match.

This often happens with couples shacking up.

If you want to marry someday, find someone compatible with that.