The same guy has been in my dreams for the past couple of weeks. Why?

Question

And it's just random dreams. Most of the times, it seems like I can't reach him. I don't get it. Does this mean something?

Answer 1

What kind of stuff you dream about is not under your control, but you can control YOUR ATTITUDE in the dreams, by putting them in God's hands as you know Him to be.    The way that I know God, is through the Lord Jesus Christ, and the God of the Bible has not changed, He is always the same yesterday today and forever.   And guys in our dreams usually mean that we are focusing a lot on fears of our future, fears of who we are going to meet, and marry, and love.

Let God into your life at this point, and ask Him to either send the dreams away, or that you will only behave in the dreams as He wants to have you behave.   In right and good pathways.  

Most of our dreams do not happen.   Some do.   Some are ways to "sift out and sort out" what is happening in our lives.

Some are ways God gets our attention so that we can begin to let Him send the yuckies and the bad stuff in our dreams away.    Sometimes when I have had a bad dream, I know that some one needs my prayers.   I pray for a lot of stuff no one knows about.   No one needs to know.   Most important is to have God's dear Spirit be the Umpire in my life, as to who gets the balls, the strikes and the outs, and the runs.  

You can trust God.   You cannot trust your dreams to be reliable.   They can warn you.   They can get your attention upon God's Will for you.    

If you want to have a fulfilling relationship with anyone in this life, in marriage, then you need to be a friend first of all, and then friends with this person, and you WILL be able to reach to him....God will do it.    If He is in it.    So like proverbs 3.5,6

trust the Lord for the future.   including that special guy.

I kept having dreams about "my guy"....and we met and married, and it has been 48 years.... I am so thankful.  

I had to be ready for that man, for he was 32 going on 33 when he married me.   Think of it.   He never dated.    And then we wrote a year and a half, because my Pastor asked me to write him.   I was 25 at the time.   When we married I was 26 going on 27.   I could have flubbed it up at any point.

Even though I kept having these dreams about someone, I decided at 12 to use my Birthday Candle to wish for the one God had for me.....One day my Daddy told me to return a ring to someone that I barely knew, because "if you are the Christian girl you say you are, and you are waiting for the Christian guy that God has prepared for you, then you will march over and return that ring, for he is just trash, and i know that kind."   My Daddy looked me straight in the eyes, and I gulped, and promptly did just that.   Years later, I was able to tell my Dad, Hey you did that for me, Dad.   What ? he said.  What did I do for you?   I told him, you told me to return a ring to a guy I hardly knew...and I did, and because of it, I was ready when the right man came along....   I owe you one, Dad.

I think that though my Dad was a bitter man who wondered if his life had been worth anything, that this gave him a reason to have lived.   So pay attention.

Answer 2

Well it depends on what he is doing in the dream, is he dying, is he intimate with you, is he mad at you? If he is intimate with you in the dream or kissing etc, that means you want him more in a relationship, if he's dying or in pain that means you are worrying about him. If he's a side person or not the main person in some or all the dreams, that means you have been thinking about him. if he is the main person that means you think about him more than other people.

Answer 3

This happened to a circle of friends of mine. At the time, I had 2 platonic female friends. Both had a dream about me couple of times, and I had a dream of one of them. We told eachother about our dreams and laughed it off, but years later, 2 girls confessed they had a feeling for me and I for the one I dreamt of...of whom I am now married to  =)

So, yes imo...it means subconsciously he is in your mind and maybe you do have a feeling for him. err, I assume he was portrayed positively in your dreams.  If not, run!

Answer 4

ive had dreams of a certain guy tooo

hmm maybe its cuz you like him and

cant get him outta yer mind?

Answer 5

I know for a fact that lots of girls dream about me without even meeting me.  That may seem weird.  But, think about it.  I'm perfection.

Lily is kind of s**y.  Best answer please!

Answer 6

your getting these dreams of this guy because dreams are things that you want or your brain wants. So, if your hearing about this so called guy alot, then i guess your brain thinks about him before you sleep.

Answer 7

do you know this guy?? that would help