The term mother nature made us this way?

Question

ok , so you know have girl shave their legs , wax their facial hair , bleach places . surgery for fuller lips . etc.

because a girl have high self-esteem and have the strength to say " i dont care" when someone point out a fuzz above your lip , the light hair on their legs , etc.

when they are naturally pretty and dont worry about little imperfection , would people suddenly dont notice the little fuzz on their lip.

would you look at them as someone who is un-clean and dont take care of themselves or admire them as someone strong and dont care what other think and happy with the way they are . << proud of the way they are made

if a guys saw someone like this , would they walk away ?

would it be easier on everyone jus to leave it alone ?

sometime i wish my life could time travel where little things like this wouldnt matter and you can focus on real life instead of worrying about all the problem you have

dont you think ?

Answer 1

this is a good question. and well, i certainly wish that we could all be less shallow, but as human beings, we aren&#039;t. and we are all being sucked into the idea that you always have to look good for people to really like you and well, to some extent that is true. people will appreciate you more if you are clean and take care of yourself. no one really cares about the lip hair lol but dirty hair or gross appearance will not make you seem good to anyone, because not many people are very good at really looking past all the physical stuff. we all do obsess ourselves over our appearances, but I don&#039;t think it is wrong to. We want to look good so we try. and succeed. it would be nice if we didn&#039;t have to try so hard haha but somehow we enjoy it because we know people will (sadly) think better of us if our leg hair isn&#039;t long lol and we also feel better being clean and looking good. But people want to look good not only because they look nicer but also because they feel better and their self esteem is upped. As hard as we all try, we usually can&#039;t look past people&#039;s appearances. If you really get to know someone, somehow, all the physical junk and appearance stress just goes away and we really see the person underneath. I really like this question and think it was very wise of you to ask us of our opinions.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

As women we go through so many things that SUBSTITUTE Beauty.  When we watch television, we see what society defines as what beauty should be. But after going through so many painful transitions such as waxing, tweezing, perming, shaving, etc,etc.  does it really mean that it is what beauty is?  Growing-up my grandma use to say &quot;You can polish an apple, but when you bite into it, it may be filled with worms&quot;. Beauty is skin deep! You can be the most attractive female, or even male. But you can also have a rotten personality to go with the looks.  Just be yourself!  If you shave or you don&#039;t.. that&#039;s your business.  I have came across some females that do shave, and have bad hygiene. Just make sure you are groomed properly. Meaning wearing clean clothes, hair combed, etc. That&#039;s what matters.