The worst day of my life...?

Question

i disappointed someone i cared for. it's not important how.

do u know the feeling when u look someone u ADORE in the eyes, and u see disappointment?

well, that happened to me.

how do i deal with this situation?

Answer 1

You apologise. That should help you both to feel better. If its possible to mend then try. If it is not then you have apologised and its up to them to accept the apology or not. Sometimes only time can mend things.

Answer 2

time and patience - don't try to force them to forgive you .... which you might want to do ... just because you want it to return to normal. - it may make things worse

also i would back off a bit... don't apoligise constantly - it will exacerbate things.

you also have to prepare yourself (dependent on the seriousness of the situation) for the fact they may not forgive you.

but as they say time is a healer - so hopefully eventually ... with time and space !  things may get better

Answer 3

you need to give a censire apology...

Answer 4

well there could be worse things...you could be pregnant

Answer 5

**** mate that's a toughie.........

there really no right answer for this. have you considered telling the person how you feel, why you did it and pleaded for forgiveness? Cheap i know but i guess if you think your friendship is worthwhile then mucho humble pie to be eaten.

good luck i think you are gonna need it x

Answer 6

Apologize and promise to never let them down again.   Beg their forgiveness if necessary.  You can do it in person, or in a handwritten, personally delivered letter.