Theirs this girl is she weird?? Please answer!!!!!!!!!?

Question

So there is this girl in my class and she hisses at boys who walk by her desk, she only reads and never talks, and her mom doesn't let her talk on the fone, she only eats soy crackers, and gets upset whenever anyone touches her tin water bottle on her desk, i tried calling her and her mom was like "why do you need to talk to her?" and "what do you need to talk to her about?" btw the mom is a HUGE female dog (if you know what i mean) I wanna help her have friends, but is she normal and how can i do this if her mom wont let me talk to the poor girl! Write back with replies!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Your the kind of friend this girl needs.Mom is being protective, tell her you are just a friend from school .It sounds like she may be autistic or something.They can have difficulty in social situations.

Answer 2

this is just an fed up situation u dont want to get in to

Answer 3

her mom is a BIOTCH she is soo mean...(hey lets call her now)

Answer 4

she probably has had a bad experience in the past with making friends and she locks herself up in her on world and keeps everyone out to try to avoid getting bullied or laughed at.......

oh and her mom probably wants to protect her because of the same reason... just try to be nice, dont rush..... little by little approach her and eventually she will see your a nice person that wants to be friends.

Answer 5

there is most likely something weird going on at her house cause that's not normal like something weird with her mom or something and you really cant be friends with someone who doesn't want friends.  

Answer 6

you should probably just shoot the mom

Answer 7

hmm... yeah i would say that is a little weird... okay maybe a lot! but shes probably like that because of her mom.

i think that is really nice that you want to help her though. try talking to her about all the weird things she does and work with her to make her better. then introduce her to some people.  good luck. i hope you are able to help her.

p.s. dont let her get too attached to you becasue if she ends up being some crazy physco freak that wont go away, then it will be hard to ditch her.

Answer 8

she's VERY sheltered. talk to her at skool

Answer 9

well that's a problem, maybe there is something wrong with her medically maybe her mom is just upset. maybe she all ways has to put up with people being mean to her daughter so she thinks your going to be that way. i wouldn't take offense to it she's probably being over protective maybe too much! i would try to let her mom know if you can, that your not out to get her you just want to be her friend and if she asks why just be honest. just say most of the kids at the school don't like her and you want to be her friend. if she's still a pain after that then try talking to the girl, treat her like everyone else. including her in a project at school where her mother isn't around. all i can say is just keep trying to you get what you want and  if the girl is interested in being friends with you.  

Answer 10

First of all...no one is normal. It's sort of a state of mind.

I'm glad you want to be friends with this girl. She sounds similar to me and some girls I've known that had really restrictive, confining, claustrophic, beaten down home lives. It will be difficult for you since you since the mom won't let you talk to her at home. Get to know her at school...ask her to a movie or something. There's a million reasons why she would hiss at guys (maybe they spread rumors about her and she doesn't trust them or she was molested and wants nothing to do with guys...for good reason) or get weird over someone touching her water bottle (she could be very wary of germs or maybe someone was nice to her and gave it to her or maybe it's all she has that's really hers). Just keep trying to be her friend, stay away from her mom and try to get her to talk.

Answer 11

First, what age/grade are you in? ... Anyways, just make sure you are as friendly as possible whenever you can be ... Try to strike up a conversation, but that might be hard if she doesn't talk. She might just not be used to social interaction because of how she has grown up or something or she might actually have some kind of social disorder that you won't be able to do anything about ... Just be nice whenever you can and still try to call her and ignore her mom if she is being a biotch because it really doesn't matter what she thinks about you ... But it sounds like she really does need a friend ... :)

Answer 12

She hisses at boys that walk by her desk?  Sounds like she has issues most likely caused by her overbearing dog-like mother.

Answer 13

This kid sounds like she has a miled case of Schizophrenia.

her mom sounds overly protective and the girl might be depressed.

I suggest go talk to a Dean or something about her,

See whats going on. Maybe shes just shy.

Answer 14

sounds like she has mental problems. she probably has a sheltered life and doesnt know how to act around her peers. her mom has prob dealt with mean kids in the past that call and make fun. she is probably real touchy when kids call her daughter. which is weird in itself. your a good girl for caring. just leave her be, bu if you see someone is picking on her and its really wrong, then stick up for her. like i said, its somthing mental with her.

Answer 15

Ummm.. uhhh..sorry to break this to you,but this girl is a creeper... and her mom is either just an awful mother or an overprotecting mother, if this mom doesn't let her kid go on the effing phone, then she either abuses her or she is a  bit weird... [[no offense to her ]] Well, my advice to you is  not to push yourself too much into this. Maybe she doesn't want any friends, or maybe she's abused because i dont want to say anything like that but it seems that it might be the case,hopefully not.

But my advice to you is don't push her or yourself, maybe you should just let her be, and if she comes around thenshe does but it seems maybeshe just doesnt want any help...

Hope I helped.

          --- Monika <3

Answer 16

Wow, sounds like Carrie.  I'd leave her alone.  She sounds like she doesn't want any friends.

Answer 17

It's very nice of you to want to help her, but perhaps she is just a loner and doesn't want your help.  If she wanted friends, she would talk to people at school.  Be nice to her, and see how she reacts to you.  Otherwise, don't push her to be just like you.  

Answer 18

it sounds to me like your opportunity to talk to her and get to know her is going to be at school. Maybe invite her to have lunch. Be careful though, if she turns out to be a complete freak it might be hard to ditch her. I know that sounds harsh but it's true. Otherwise just be friendly at school and maybe you could have her over to your house if her mom isn't very open to people in hers  

Answer 19

hmmm intersting. u could talk to her at school let her get to know u first and let her trust u then if u still wanna know ask y she is so wierd? well good luck on ur answer!

Answer 20

I'm a teacher so I see weird on a daily basis but this girl takes the cake.  Just keep being persistent then perhaps she and her weird *** mother would see that you are being genuine.  I think it's very nice of you to want to befriend someone like that.  :-)

Answer 21

Hello,

People are just different, in there own way. If her mom asks like that than it's her mothers fault trying to be rude- but when a child sees there parents behavior they follow them or the mother teach them that way and that what she probably did. That is very nice of you to care and want to be her friend. Just talk to her at school that she is in to like for example you said she likes to read, talk about books and maybe give her a book for a present of friendship so she knows you care and she would tell her mom so that way you could be friends. Just tell her mom that you just want to be friends, maybe show up at her house - get directions if possible- and see if she wants to hang out? If talking to her mom doesn't work out you should always ask your mom to talk that's what I did. But turns out later on it just turned out ok, it just takes time. She needs to get use to her surrounding. Take care and good luck. I will be praying for the best for you to.

Answer 22

She just could be the type of person who is not a people person if you know what I mean.  From the sounds of it, she honestly does sound a bit "different".  I know you certainly mean well, but I think maybe it be better if you just wait & sit back & watch her for awhile.  Might just be best not to get involved.  She just sounds a bit "other than the norm" if you know what I mean.  You can try smiling at her & saying hi, but see where she takes it from there.  Just saying this for your sake...:)