Then why is it!!!!?

Question

why is it that when i think im being complex, or i try to be, people think i'm simple and easy to figure out, but then when i just allow myself to be myself without any bounderies, people think im too complicated?

Sun in Scorpio

Moon in Saggitarius

Pluto in Scorpio

Mercury in Scorpio

Answer 1

Gemini Rising:

Those born with Gemini rising see the world as a place to learn. They are curious about the people around them. Sounds similar to Sagittarius rising? Well it is, but there are some important differences. While Sagittarius seeks to expand their mental and physical horizons in a broad sense, Gemini is mostly interested in moving about in their social circles.

These are people who love to ask questions, to move around freely, and to mingle. Definitely restless and often quick in physical expression, natives of the Gemini Ascendant exude an air of impatience even if they don't mean it. In fact, there is a cleverness to Gemini Ascendants that can intimidate some, especially sensitive folk. Their facility with words can be a wonderful asset, although sometimes Gemini rising individuals identify too much with their mental agility and forget, in their personal interactions and communications, to nurture the people around them. A certain lack of warmth in presentation can be the result, and although this style is generally a facade, it is not immediately apparent to most. People with, for example, predominant Water signs may feel a little ill at ease with Gemini rising people (that is, before they get to know them more personally), while strong Air types more fully appreciate the fun and cleverness of these individuals.

I have found two styles of presentation most common with Gemini rising people. One style is bubbly, changeable, talkative, and a little quirky. These natives are interesting and fun. They constantly explain things, whether it's their own behavior and opinion or those of the world around them. Another distinct "style" is a rather cool and intellectual demeanor. These natives are often quite witty and clever, but they present themselves in a less cheerful and changeable way than the first group. Their observations are sharp and the overall manner is a tad brusque. No matter the style, Gemini rising natives are given to analysis and making sense of their world. Their powers of observation are well-developed, they are mentally active (more often than not, their minds are racing!), and they almost always have something bright or witty to say. It is easy for individuals with this position to get sidetracked, as their curiosity is large, their minds are quick, and their attention spans rather short!

As children, natives born with a Gemini Ascendant are often labeled as the intellectual, inquisitive, and perhaps odd child. Many feel their upbringing lacked some warmth.

In one-to-one relationships, Gemini rising people often seek a certain amount of personal freedom and space. They enjoy intellectual debates and exchanging ideas. Although they often demand a fair amount of freedom, they are often just as willing to give their partners room to breathe.

Scorpio sun:

With a Scorpio Sun, you are often dominated by powerful emotions, although generally a sound sense of purpose guides your actions and relationships with others. In most undertakings, thoroughness, determination, persistence and concentration bring successful results. Great courage is shown when in physical distress or mental strain. An ability to fight off all opposition is the result of your determination and tremendous staying power. Self-control is one of your main characteristics; actions and feelings are restrained by a cautious, secretive nature. You can also be jealous, obstinate, and tactless, but your magnetic personality ensures continued popularity. People learn not to upset you because when aroused you can be ruthlessly blunt and revengeful - not one to have as an enemy! Possessing a strong sexual drive your love-life can be passionate and demanding. In personality development tendencies to gloom, suspicion, or coldness need to be well disciplined. Likely occupations are the law, police work, surgery, chemistry and similar fields, or military professions.

Sagittarius moon:

The Sagittarius Moon can be described as radiant, fun and visionary, with many notable pioneers born under this sign. They’re often optimistic about the future and open hearted, both qualities of which can be contagious. They appreciate life as a grand adventure, and never stop exploring and learning new things.

The public style of the Moon in Sagittarius is engaging and light, and they’re sure to hold their own in large gatherings. Their curiosity keeps them asking the questions, and putting people at ease with their sharp insights and wit. They’re at their best with a varied social calendar as they adapt to and enjoy being around people of different cultures and outlooks.

The Moon in Sagittarius gets flashes of inspiration, along with the hopeful optimism to bring their many ideas to fruition. They’re risk takers, and often will shrug off warnings from others, drawing on a well of trust in both fate and their instincts. More cautious souls might find them reckless, but then stand back and watch in amazement all those times when luck is on their side.

In romance, the “Sadge” Moon thrives with a mate that is a fellow traveler on a parallel path. They have a need for complete emotional freedom from a partner that can keep up with their active pace. Life’s banquet can be savored together for as long as it stays a vital match, for they’ll shake free of anything that has lost its luster.

The Moon in Sagittarius has a mission, and can’t be held back by outdated relationships or ideas. Their province is the future, so there has to be a swiftly evolving nature to their work and love lives. Along their speedy way, they’ll shine a focused light on lost dreams and leave a wake of encouragement and inspiration behind them.

Pluto in Scorpio:

Pluto is the slowest moving planet and thus is recognized as exerting a generational influence as it moves through each zodiac sign.

With Pluto in Scorpio you're part of the generation that can experience radical changes in sexual attitudes, big business and banking, understanding of the supernatural realm and insights into the psychological workings of the mind.

On a personal level, those with Pluto in Scorpio tend to be intense, intuitive, reforming and at times extreme or even violent.

Read the house placement for Pluto in your chart. It shows you an area of life where this planet has a more personal influence.

Answer 2

Well scorpio is very complex - they have really deep feelings that they do not always expose because they feel no one understands them on such a deep level. Since you have scorpio not only in your sun, but in your mercury, this means that the way you think and talk is complex and reserved.



However, this being said you have saggitarius moon which makes you warm, frank and open. When you have no boundarys, this is because saggitarius is very adventurous, you are emotionally adventureous and i think in a way scorpio and saggitarius could contract one another. This is because sagitarius is very open and scorpio is more reserved. When you are being reserved or complex, what you do not know is scorpio although reserved deep down is honest, sensual and laid back (surprisingly) and so it works well with saggitarius although, it seems it doesn't. And when you let yourself relax and go without any boundaries, but you are normally reserved, you go after excitment and have a fearless nature. This is completely oposite to what you come accross - rather reserved.

also check your rising as this is a good indicator of how other people see you.

I really hope that made a bit of sense! sorry my mind is a blurr today lol. I always find i can answer these questions about myself best myself.. you might already know the answer deep down yourself, but  sometimes it can be hard.

- cancer, cancer mercry, scorpio moon