There's a really stupid family issue that's been growing over the years, and I'm wondering we can deal with it

Question

Yeah, there's this family issue with my grandpa, his wife and his two kids. He sold my grandma's (his first wife) apartments to his second wife for 1$ and all of this other stuff, and that was a while back. My mother and her six other siblings were forced by my grandpa to sign a contract allowing him to sell the apartments, which are worth at least $600,000. Anyways- I've been through my whole life hearing about it and I'm sick of it! How can i deal with it? She's filed a divorce, left the state, and now wrote a letting saying "sorry"...should I believe it? She's been pissing my family off for the past 13 years! help~

Answer 1

the thing is it all sounds legal, so theres not much you can do.

let it go and move on, otherwise you are always going to feel this resentment which can effect all your other relationships.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If you all have any legal rights then get a lawyer & let the lawyer do something. If you know you have no rights then you all are making yourself miserable. You have to do some forgiveness work. Healing means to come together (like a cut finger). If you all don't heal from this you are going to not only ruin your own lives but everyone you come in contact with. I coach people to live better lives cause I have learned how to do that myself. It is so hard if you know how but most people have no clue how to do this. Most professionls don't help people very much. If you really want a better life & are willing to do what it takes to get it then e-mail me & I will help you. If you e-mail me write the the first 3 words of your question were "there's a really" so I can look this up to refer to it. Your whole family doesn't have to change, if you change yourself everything will work out. I can help you understand that that things in life happen for a reason. This is not the worst thing in the world. It is only money & no one killed an innocent person to steal their money. Meanwhile, with all the anger the family has been putting their energy into they could have put that energy into getting an education or building a business worth more that $600,000. So stop now & start manifesting the money without waiting for someone who is never going to give it to you to give it to you.

Answer 4

What is done and finished, and what is in the past cannot be changed. I dont think any of you have any legal rights about the apartment if the selling contract was right so i would suggest .... em... moving on!

Answer 5

She says she's sorry.  For what?  Does she have any idea of the pain that you've been through? Has she ever taken the time to hear your side of the story? "Sorry" is never enough.  However, it is a start.

You don't say if she wants to maintain a relationship with you or if she's just trying to patch old wounds. (Or worse).

If she's asking for money or material things, I wouldn't trust her.  If she's merely asking to be forgiven for the questionable dealings of your grandfather, then, okay offer whatever forgiveness you can and allow yourself to find some peace in this mess.  Forgiving her will bring you peace.  But forgiveness does not mean letting her into your life.  If you're ready to move on, then forgiven and really let it go!

Answer 6

Bomb the apartments with shaving cream

Answer 7

For get about it!!

Answer 8

UGH UR GPAS A DOOSHPICKLE FOR DOING THAT- BUT I WOULDNTI REALLY BE SURE ON WHAT DO MY SELF SRRY

Answer 9

I'd say it's pretty much over now, let it go!