There are a lot of people that I don't like?

Question

But I don't know how they always seem to be able to sense that I don't like them or that I don't respect them or that I'm judging them? How do they know? I don't make any kind of comments that are negative towards them. It's never my intention to show people I dislike how I feel about them.... but a lot of times they just know?

Answer 1

Most peoples sixth sense/intuition is fairly developed...Undercurrents of others feelings are very often picked up on quickly, regardless of the words that come out of the mouth.

Body language is another give away.

Why is it that you don't like a lot of people?

Answer 2

Body language and facial expressions pretty much sum it all up. Practice in front of a mirror, you will see what we here are talking about. You can practice hiding expressions using this method also.

Answer 3

I have never been good at hiding how I truly feel about someone.  If I don't like them, though I may  be civil to them they know from my body language and  in my voice.  And if I really like someone, I might try to act casual and blase, but it is simply in how I speak to them and act around them that gives it away. We as humans are open books.

Answer 4

It is probably evident in your body language.  We do a lot with our body to communicate our feelings.  The same with facial expressions.  We don't always realize that we are doing it either.  Equally, the receiving end doesn't realize how they are picking up on it all of the time either.  As we grow up our knowledge base includes one example after another of such scenarios.  So, it is just automatic to pick up the subtleties.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_langua...  this link might be helpful to you.

Answer 5

well sometimes actions speaks louder then words. Do you act like when you meet someone, do you stretch out your hand and say, please to meeta ya? or Do you snub your nose down at them, and say Hey....When you see your best friend, do you hug her or him? Or do you yell HIIIII, Com on, lighten up, and be a little neat squeaky clean nicer, Then, you will be loved

Answer 6

People are more perceptive than you think.

Answer 7

Your overall attitude, your body language, the way you say your words even though they may "seem" nice and an inborn sense of how others react to us are all methods we use to "sense" how someone feels about us.

The larger question is, why are you like this?  What has caused you to have such an attitude towards others?

Answer 8

words aren't the only form of communication you know - you might give it away in other ways like body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, not speaking to them much.  Or maybe you're just paranoid and because YOU know you don't like them, you assume THEY know you don't like them.  But if you don't like them to begin with, why do you care what they think?

Answer 9

it is probably your body language or facial expressions. It can be hard to notice when you are doing certain things. Or it is your tone of voice.

Answer 10

actions are loud and attitudes are louder people can know just by looking at you and your ways who you dislike

Answer 11

U could be giving it away by the way u look at them or how u act or treat them without 1 word being used. U may just have to disguise your dislikes a lil more better.  I wish u a Happy 4th Of July.