There are ghosts in my house just want to know how to find out why they are here?

Question

it is 1 mother and 2 children a boy and a girl they arent mean the little girl walks around laughing the boy just walks around and the mom shuts door and walks around looking for something. and if your going to waste my time telling me im stupid then dont even waste your time typing me a note.

Answer 1

Why would I kow what they want? Ask THEM! And if you want to know how to do that, you can do it in almost any way, but the easiest would probably be mental communication. You can form a sentence in your mind and send it mentally to them, they will be more likely to hear that than out-loud talking. Be aware, the response will return the same way - mentally. It may sound like a vvoice in your head, but it is not in your head, not exactly. See, they will most likely respond with thoughts or feelings that your brain will translate into English words. You are not talking to yourself. The effect is caused by the translation process.

Answer 2

Well if you really want to know you will have to get a good medium in. I would leave it chance are they are just living in their own time and could well be unaware  your even there. If they are not bothering you I would leave it be. Up to you though. Goood luck :)

Answer 3

Great, maybe you can produce some real evidence to confound the scientific world. Then again, I doubt it.

Answer 4

th hart knows no limits to its desire when its full of love...

the ghosts could just love being alive ?

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lebanon berlin and palastine , nai even jerusulem

where marked by greater walls than wall alone

there was devision

family from family

hart from hart

we where apart barly saw the scars these bloody spikes gave us

to our likeness to our souls

this wall fallinf brings tears

to hands reaching over borders

with loving brotherhood we tare and rend this wall nay eny wall shall not devide us in spirit

hope or love

to the fence i place my hart on steely barbs write raw in blood

my love for my devided hart

i love you too sister !

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Answer 5

I totally understand what you are going through i have the same problem, except its just one that i know of, and its a woman, me, my brother, and my sisters have all seen her, she wears a white night gown, and we only see her going into the bathrooms, its pretty wicked, and i always have this feeling that there is someone in the house when im by myself, can anyone possibly know what i could do?

Answer 6

OMG i can relate i have a or i think i have a family livinging my home they lets just say moved on and its possible if they are nice and you can comunicate with them try and be a friend to them they probably lost somthing vary important to them and cant move on try and communicate with them and help them find what they need then they can move on they are lost so you need to guide them to heaven just help them

Answer 7

You're not stupid. You just want to believe in ghosts so badly that you actually think you can sense them, even when they don't actually exist. It's very easy for your mind to play tricks on you when you have convinced yourself that invisible beings are walking about.

Answer 8

First let me start off by saying I do not claim to be a  ghost expert......these are my theories

There are many reasons a spirit/ghost Can be somewhere As one person stated they could be there for unfinished business or they may not know they have passed on or they may have a tie to someone in the place like a family member.

I can't guarantee any methods of finding out why they are there but tell you ways others have tried to find out. Some people try physics others try paranormal research groups some will will grab a voice recorder and try them selves by asking questions then waiting 3 or 4 minutes and asking another the method you should use is one you feel comfortable with.

Answer 9

Try an Ouija board. They must not have done somthing in their life that need to be done. Once that is accomplished they should go away. Also If they want to harm you get out. I do belive in ghost and what not but I have never seen one. I am not an expert but that is my advice to you.

Answer 10

the best thing to do when you have earthbound spirits in your home is to contact a good medium, she/he will come to your home and ask the spirits why they are still here when they should have gone to the light, the medium will then persuade the spirits to leave and help them on what should have been a natural occurance, to find a medium, you should either go to your local spiritualist church and have a word with the secretary, or you can write to the national spiritualist union in london,(thats if your british) good luck. xx

Answer 11

There must be some reason why they cannot move on. Some unfinished business. Im not sure what to suggest really, do they acknowledge you are there? or ignore you?

I dont think you're stupid I think its amazing, gl honey! x

Answer 12

Why don't you talk to them outright? In a polite way of course.

Or maybe you should search for another site that offers more specialist knowledge. Unfortunately, I don't know any.

Answer 13

I can't say for sure, but they probably have some connection with the house.  One thing you can do to find out is to get a voice recorder (digital so you don't get the tape static) and sit still in a room where you think a presence is.  Turn the recorder on and start asking questions, leaving enough time inbetween for an answer.  After the session, playback the audio and listen for any answers.

Answer 14

put flour on the floor at night

Answer 15

There is no such thing as a ghost.  Also, there are no such things as psychics, mediums, spirits, ESP.  This stuff has been tested over and over and no credible evidence has been found that any of it exists.  This is the 21st century, people!  Stop living in the Dark Ages.  Sheesh....

Answer 16

get a medium to find out

also NEVER do a ouiji board alone without a person who knows what they are doing there

Answer 17

all ghosts are demons, not lost souls, they just mimic the departed to fool people, they make up the third of fallen angels that rebelled against God,

put your trust in jesus name above all names,

from one who has been there, x

Answer 18

Get a digital voice recorder and either let it run on record or ask questions and give a time space for it to answer .

it is easy. then when you play it back you will hear their answers

Answer 19

check the house for solvents and paints or open pesticides.   many times people think their house has ghosts, not realizing they were just hallucinating from the vapors given off by poorly sealed household or garage chemicals.

I'm serious.

Answer 20

Ask them who they are

Answer 21

Do you live in the UK? Contact Most Haunted if you do, they can put you in contact with some one who can help. You don't sound like you want to get rid of them, good. I've got a ghost who, in the night time when we are in bed walks around between my kitchen and livingroom, you can hear the doors opening and lights being switched on. When I go down stairs the lights are on and all the windows are open! So 2 weeks ago I asked the ghost to stop opening the big windows, now it only opens the small windows! Don't go to a priest, I would find a medium to make contact with them. BUT don't tell them who they are! That way you can tell if they are for real. Alternatively, open yourself up...make contact yourself and ask them why they are here. You don't sound scared which is good. Good luck finding out. Take care x*x

Answer 22

You should get online and try to find someone in your area who does work with EVP (Electronic Voice Phenomenon).

It is interesting and seems a little less hokey than mediums and the like.

There are many groups that do decent research on this type of thing. It is cool that you aren't freaked about the presence and that they seem to be harmless.

You can also try to do some research on the place you live. Find out who lived there before and if any events occured in the past to keep these entities in kind of a spiritual "limbo".

Start looking around on line and you may find a wealth of people willing to help you answer your qusetion as to why they are there.

Good luck mate!

Answer 23

Sounds like "The Others" - they may not know that they're dead and may not be aware that you're there.

If you're ok with them, then perhaps leave them in their blissful ignorance.

Answer 24

Get a psychic. They're pretty good i saw on TV.

Answer 25

I believe in spirits so I am not going to waste your time. I have had lots of experiences with spirits and have some theories about them derived from my own experiences and the books i have read.

Firstly you need to find out the history of your house? How old is your house? Do you own it or rent it? Try to gage how many people have stayed there.There may be a chance that the three of them may not know that they are deceased, they may have died together of an illness or been murdered. What period or year do they seem from. Can you sense if it is from this century or last? Go to the council or real estate and get the house dated - then go to the library and look up the history of the area. Talk to you neighbours especially the older ones in the area and ask them if they knew the people who owned the house - I sense that your spirits actually resided there for years and owned the property. Get a name and then go to the cemetry. This research will help you decipher a bit about your spirits.

The next time you see or hear mum ask her what she wants with you mind just think it the response may be very interesting. The family may be looking for their dad.

Now if they are not bothering you then leave them be, you probably are sensitive to spirits so dont worry. You cana sk ythem to leave but they maynot mean any harm spirits are not necessarily bad so let them be. Its nice actually sharing the house with other entities - I have had spirits who I liked and acknowledged them just by saying out aloud you are welcome here.

Ok now my therories - I believe that sprits have feelings just like live people - some spirits dont know they are dead and some want to stay in their houses I suppose that is there version of heaven. If you were a bad person in real life then you may be a bad spirit in the after life but if you are a good person you will most probably be a good spirit. If you died suddenly like in murder or sudden illness then they may not be aware they have died . This can be siad for car accidents. Ever notoce a seemingly harmless stretch of road and then one car accident occurs and before long quite a few happen. I think its the spirits of the dead not realising their dead and causing others to die too.

I would not hasten to get your visitors out and I would not listen to others that say they are fallen angels or demons. c**p. I have had too many experiences to know taht they are otherwise. Also as live entities we have a lot of power so compassion for deceased people who are now spirits is a nice thing. You can email me if you like if you need anymore help. Also you probably have some idea why they haunt or if you dont know you may find out soon. God bless - Also I would not try an ouja board simply because you never know what you may open up with those boards they are portals to all sorts of things.

Answer 26

You must be pretty sensitive and psychic yourself even to be aware of them.  I would imagine you might have an intuitive feeling why they are there.  I think that they feel unable to move on, for any number of reasons:

~They don't realise they're dead

~They do, but they don't want to leave

~They have unfinished business

~They would like to move on, but don't know how.

You should check out this website which does spirit clearing, if that's what you'd like to do...

http://www.moonslipper.com/ghosts.html

Answer 27

Go to ghostweb.com and read their free articles on the subject. You will learn how to determine this yourself.

BB

Answer 28

I would get a priest to try to help them to move on.