There is a bully at school... HELP??

Question

Ok so i have food allergies to dairy, eggs, soy, peanuts, and wheat... but there is this guy that always makes fun of me... its not like i choose to have these allergies.. but it makes me really sad sometimes that there are mean people in the world that make fun of people with problems like this!! What should i do....??? Please give some helpful advice!

Thanks!!♥

Answer 1

Aww. I'm sorry sweet heart. Don't worry about that bully! Stand up to him and say not everybody's perfect. God makes each and everyone of us in his own special way. Just know your a very special person, maybe not to the bully but to your friends and family. [= Keep your head up sister.

Answer 2

It is possible he likes you. Boys aren't very good at communicating at this age (I am assuming middle school?) and sometimes the brightest idea they come up with is teasing a girl. Yeah, it's stupid, but this have been going on for 100's of years.

It's a stretch, but try to have a conversation with him when a lot of people aren't around (he won't feel the need to impress his friends) and talk about homework, movies, other stuff. If he gets to know you just a little bit as a regular kid, instead of Allergy-Girl, he might lay off the teasing. And as you have probably heard million times, kids bully because they themselves feel inferior. Treating him normally may be all he needs to drop the tough guy act around you.

I am a teacher so you may not want my advice. I do not tolerate bullies. When I catch someone picking on another student, I pick on them right out loud in class or the hallway. Everyone winds up laughing . Then I talk to the bully privately and point out that what I did was the same as what they did and that I know it doesn't make anyone feel good about themselves when it happens. It almost always puts an end to it.

And if this doesn't work, the other comebacks suggested to you here are pretty darn good! He won't know what hit him.  

Answer 3

i think it's really stress relieving to have someone to tell these problems to, like a friend or a counselor or something.  and when he teases you, just give him a dirty look and then go about your business.

Answer 4

Confronting a bully is over rated.  Try to stay away from him.  I went to school with kids with all kinds of conditions and they didn't make a big deal out of it so those of us considered normal didn't either.  As a matter of fact we would make sure the person with the condition was included in our activities.  Of course that wasn't all of the group and we ended up helping them stay from the bullies.  

As long as it is words just ignore him.  If he escalates do not hesitate to report him.  If the school won't do anything to help you make sure you have a cell and call the police.  The school won't like it but they will take better measures when they see you can fight for yourself.

If the school doesn't permit cell phones you will have to negotiate with them based on your allergies  you may need it if you have a reaction.

Answer 5

Tell him the following:

Sure I'm allergic, so what? If you have enough time to make fun of my allergies maybe you should.... get a life? I'm so allergic to your peanuts... I mean balls that you really have to get away from me. Thank you for your time *slap*

Answer 6

Go with it. "Yeah I cant eat *insert food here* but so what? Sereously what is soo amusing about my allergies that you must confront me about on a day to day basis? You like me dontcha?" " *no! *" "Well thats what im gettin"

Answer 7

be like yeah i may have allergies but at least i have a brain

Answer 8

the thing I am most allergic to is a big dumb bully like you.

or get a life man.  

Answer 9

don't be sad just because some jerk makes fun of something you have no control over

i think instead of being sad about... just have some confidence and take it and use it as something you can work with

tell him that he has no right to make fun of you