There is this little girl that really likes me. She is 4 and a neighbor. What do I do about it?

Question

What do I do about it?

She needs to find a friend her own age.

The parents call it a "crush"

I am 18, and this is un-natural.

What do I do about it?

Answer 1

I can t believe you need to ask that question here, 4???? Ummm, if you don t know the correct answer maybe you should speak to a professional about this.

Answer 2

She's 4, its normal for her to have a crush on you! Dont do anything about it, dont ignore the poor little girl, i mean obviously you know she's too young, if you play with her then play with her like you normally do, it will probably last like 2 weeks!

Answer 3

more than likely she doesnt like you like that, not as a relationship type no.

but she might look up to you, and think your fun. but if it makes you feel weird then stop being around her,

Answer 4

AW! That's kinda cute i think!

Maybe go with the flow. You can take her to see space chimps and after that to Chucke E Cheese! WHOO!

Or

Just ignore it but be nice to her. Shell get over it eventually. Or or, maybe get a friend that's hotter than you and introduce her to him! Kinda bad for your friend but good for you!

Answer 5

tell her you like her to but you think your relationship with her is to remain a friendship and nothing else because you respect her for the sweet little girl that she is. And then don't hang around there to often

Answer 6

Nothing, it is not un natural she probably just thinks your cute, or funny. Do nothing about it she is 4 just smile and wave to her.  

Answer 7

you just smile about it because her brain is processing relationships

you don't do anything about it, but you don't egg it on either.  Yes it is true that she needs to find friends her own age, but I'm guessing you don't go over there for tea every day either.

you don't have to take her to the zoo, or go shopping with her or play with her or anything like that...just go along with it, it is a phase, she will grow out of it.

Answer 8

my daughter is 4... the thought of her having a crush on anyone is ridiculous. yes she really likes other females and males,she calls them her "best friend" doesnt mean she wants to kiss them jus that she wants to play dolls with them. just accept she likes you, play with her like you would a sister and in time another "crush/bestfriend" will come along and you will pushed aside. children are fickle at this age

Answer 9

Awww bless her!

I wouldnt say its a crush, A child of 4 wouldnt have the ability to have a crush! She just likes you! When i was about 14, there was a little boy down the street who must have been about 5, He used to come and call on me to see if i was 'playing out' bless him, He was the most adorable little thing, The amount of times i played stupid kiddy games in the tenfoot with him. The fact was, He didnt have very many friends and i was nice to him (our mums were kinda friends) and he latched on to that. Its what children do, Just humor her. When her parents say she has a crush, There probably just kidding around, If it does bother you just say to them 'Dont you think she is a bit young to be having crushes?'

Anyway, It all seems pretty inocent to me, We just live in a world where men are afraid to talk or play with young children because they are afraid to be called a peadofile! Its a sad reality really, It shouldnt have to be like that ;(

Answer 10

Just ignore it, when she gets older she'll find other crushes when she go to school and see other boys.  Everything will be okay!

Answer 11

actually it kinda normal . she just probably think you are her best friend or something . every child goes threw it at some point and time . nothing you can really do about it . just be nice to her and go on .