Theres something missing in my boyfriend and i want it?

Question

Girls you know how most guys initiate s*x alot and all they wanna do it do it or they think about it etc? well my boyfriend is kind of the opposite. I have been with him for a few months now and he is so lovely and gorgeous and he treats me like a princess, he always says how beautiful i am and he would text me in the middle of the night reminding me of that. He is very polite infact toooo polite. At first i thought it was too good to be true and i was right it was because now i just want him to argue with me alittle, say sexual things to me, grab my *** once in a while and be alittle cheeky, i mean i know i am a girl but i have sexual needs to just like a man. I also know that i should be very greatful for the guy i have as other guys can be down right rude (no offence guys) but i would like for him to argue with me alittle because in a strange sort of way i find it s**y. Am i wierd for thinking like this? i have tried to say suggestive things to him, he would smile and then say something cute back instead of something hot, what should i do? any tips would be great, thanks alot

Answer 1

maybe hes just not ready for a sexual relationship with you yet.

maybe he isn't ready for s*x at all.

have you talked about it?

you could try by having your hand on his knees, slowly work your way up his thigh, and massage him through his trousers. watch his reaction carefully.....

Answer 2

Sweetie, rethink your logic. This guy is everything you've ever dreamed of personality wise, but sexually he doesn't satisfy you the way you want him to. Wouldn't it be easier to say, "You know Hun, I want to try this..." Let's try that, rather than going out and finding somebody who has everything you want in the bed, but nothing personality wise? The s*x part is a learned personality is built through life experiences. You build your personality from birth to now, it's very hard to change that. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best of luck although I feel like you're sacrificing your happiness for what you think your v****a needs. Thinks smart!

Answer 3

He sounds perfect... But if you want more then either tell him about it (which may turn out to be a bit more akward)

Or suggest it yourself. It doesnt always have to be the man who makes the first move. Just go for it!  

And good luck i wish you all the best.

Answer 4

Just take him and rip his clothes off and if he doesn't bite he's g*y!!! Buy him a copy of g*y monthly and tell him to do one!!