Theres this bully at my school he wont stop bothering me plezzz help?

Question

Theres this bully at my school he wont stop bothering me plezzz help?

Answer 1

If he is doing physical harm...report him immediately.  If he is hurting your feelings to the point where it's really affecting you, then talk to a trusted adult there at your school.  If he's just plain 'ole annoying, don't give him any of your power.  You lose power if you express a reaction to his bullying.  The more you react, the more power he has.  He will stop if he sees you are not reacting.  But NEVER allow him to physically harm you, or cause emotional turmoil.

Answer 2

I know you are scared. A bully is scary. He likes to scare you, it makes him feel good.

I think ignoring him might work, but if he puts one finger on you you have to go mad dog! I mean really over the top crazy. That will shock him and possibly give you the upper hand.

I am a big believer in not starting fights but I'll be sure to defend myself if someone starts one with me. try to do it when a teacher or parent is around. If you get in trouble for defending yourself, your principal should be ashamed.

What are you supposed to do...let the bully beat you?? NOT

Answer 3

My husband was bullied around as a child because he befriended the kids that were not liked because of the way they dressed.  He had pencils stuck in his back, his wrist broken all because his father told him never to fight back.  It wasn't until he learned boxing and gained the confidence he needed to defend himself physically before they left him alone.  Sometimes defending oneself is what it takes to gain respect sometimes not.  I also was bullied verbally.  I just tried to ignore the bully and make friends and make sure I had people around me much of the time.  Hope this helps...

Answer 4

Everybody goes through bullies. I'd like to help you out.

I'm sure you've tried just telling him or her(for efficiancy's sake I'm going to use him) to stop.

One way is to try and befriend him. You may be able to understand the person's problems. Or you could try making more friends, since it's harder for him to approach a group.

But if you are one of those people(like myself), who simply has no compassion for these unfeeling neandrathals, there are better ways.

Having my black-belt older sister or red-belt brother threaten them always worked. Do you have an older, scarier friend?

Black mail usually helps, too. Try to find some of that?

I've never been bothered by the "physical" sort of bullies. If he's verbal, think up a really good insult. If he's physical...insults still have a chance of working.

Or you could take him by suprise. Next time they bother you, turn around and give him a good punch in the nose. He's not going to expect you to fight back.

Answer 5

ignore him

or if its really bad then tell a teacher

Answer 6

kick him in the ball sack. just don't go to school with a gun. please. i don't want to hear about you on the news.

Answer 7

Stand up to him or her. A bully does not expect that. Sure you may get your but kicked or get suspended but if you win wouldn't it be worth it?

Answer 8

When a bully is picking on someone, it justs means he is trying to vent out his frustration. To help solve this situation, try to talk to the bully in private, so that he doesn't get embarrassed, and ask him what his problems are. If this doesn't work, then he might need a counselor or psychiatrist to help him.

Answer 9

Tell your parents because most people do not understand bullies.

Bullies love the feeling of power and ruling others through fear.

They wont stop bullying unless they are made to.For them to make others feel inferior makes them feel superior.