These "Just Coincidences"? ?

Question

Okay augh. My friends are the type that think everything has a reason behind it. And when I told them about my coincidental day a few days back they laughed and told me it was a sign. Is it?

Okay, had a dream about the guy I like (and is my best guy friend who was asked out 5 minutes before I asked him) and me riding on the bus and I mentioned something about his eyes and he was about to ask me out but then he had to get off the bus.

Then I woke up to When You Look Me In The Eyes which I keep my radio station on a Heavy Metal channel that doesn't play Jonas Brothers.

Then when I watched TV, they started talking about Notre Dame where my crush is dead-set on going. I turned that off.

So it was the day we go get our schedules and check our buses. Ends up he's in half of my classes and since they switched up the buses he's now on my bus. He hasn't been on my bus since 1st grade. (Now that sorta had me agreeing with my friends)

Then during Field Hockey, I heard his named called out to see none other than him and some other soccer players kicking the ball around. Ends up that the soccer team was sharing the field with us and they never go down to the stadium to practice. They always go to a local field.

Then he never gets on AIM and that night all I heard was him signing off and on. I was seriously like: WTF?

And this happened all in 1 flippin day.

Not to mention several months back I was listening to my radio station and they had shout-outs from all over the country and one just happened to be from a girl in my area who made a shout-out to her boyfriend with the same name as my crush and who was going to Notre Dame and she was going to the college I'm dead-set on going to. And not only did I hear this but so did my friends because that was the first thing out of their mouth the next day asking if I made that call as a joke.

So whaddya think and don't call me crazy or anything. My friends are the ones that pointed this all out to me.

Answer 1

That would be ALOT of coincedences.Figure it out for yourself.

Answer 2

Let me make a quick digress first.  I don't know what religion you are, but each regular religion has both an exoteric and esoteric side.  For instance, Jesus once said, 'If a man has eyes, let him see; If he has ears, let him hear."  There are two meanings here, one exoteric ("listen to what I'm telling you and watch what I do") and one esoteric (when certain cosmic forces are at work, you need to develop a special "awareness" for them to recognize them...not everyone has those types of ears and eyes.)

Two books for you to get:  Synchronicty by Carl Jung and Roots of Coincidence by Arthur Koestler.  IMHO, you are definitely plugging into the cosmic machine.  It is extremely cool if you're one of the chosen ones to have this happen to you.  The cosmic forces also have a sense of humor, often, so be prepared to do some laughing as well.

PS Koestler has reduced determining if a series of events is a coincidence or something much more.  Enjoy the read.  Both are excellent.