They're so cnfusing, can someone please help me!? ?

Question

my family have a wood heater so every now and them we go and get wood and put it away at our house. My family call me lazy alot because I don't come out and help and the only reason I don't come and help is because they don't tell me it's happening so I have no idea that they're putting away wood or doing anything like that. They get all pissed off at me and call me lazy, but I never knew. How I'm meant ot help them when I have no idea that they need it!!! HELP!! It's so annoying!!!

Answer 1

what we have here is a failure to communicate  ( i love that line ) perhaps if they know when this is happening or any thing that should be scheduled like that they could put it on the calender for all to see and make arrangements for. And you Darlin could just as easily say I am sorry how a bout I take out the trash or help with cleanup after dinner or something to assure them your a responsible member of the family, and by volunteering you take away the risk of them assigning you a task you don't want. (see I'm good looking and clever). good luck

Answer 2

Sounds like your family needs some better communication.  You may want to tell them to let you know ahead of time so you can help.  

Answer 3

my parentals are like that too.

Just tell them, " Hey you didn't ask me to though, could you please remind me next time"?

But in a nice way.