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They treated her like the victim!! How do I make new friends now?

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I was friends with this girl since middle school. But she gets really paranoid if people are mad at her a lot. I'm the kind of person that when I get in a bad mood, or something bad happened to me, I won't tell anyone right away. And because I don't tell her, she thinks it's because I'm mad at her. She vents to people whenever she has a problem, but I don't do that, and she doesn't get it. Welll, one day she thought I was mad at her(again) and she told all of our other friends. Long story short, they all took her side without asking me if I really was, and they all freaked out on me in the bathroom after school saying how I'm always mad at my one friend, when I'm really not! I have not been friends with them girls ever since, but the friend that always thinks I'm mad at her still wanted to be friends again. I don't really want to be friends with her because she really hurt me, and because of her, I don't have any friends! She knew that I told her I wasn't mad at her but she still thought that I was and told our other friends anyway. I'm starting school in 4 days(including today), and I'm a nervous wreck. And I'm gonna be a junior in high school. I really wanna work hard in school this year, but at the same time, I wanna feel comfortable with all of my classmates. How do I make new friends?

Also, after my ex-friend told everyone I was mad at her, people were treating my friend like the victim. But who is really the victim: me or my paranoid friend?

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  1. you have to figure out if you really want to hold this grudge. if being friends with her again is the only way you're going to have friends again, maybe you should forgive her and be her friend again.  

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