Think he may be cheating?

Question

my boyfriend of 6 yrs has walked out on me b4.last time for 2 months.i could never reach him on his cell.he was partying alot. he came back, and i suspected he had cheated.i snooped through his cellphone,a nd the only woman's number was mine nobody ever called him. he said my moods were the problem/i do have depression and call him every 5 minutes of the day. so i found out i was pregnant and he is away again.again, i felt he was cheating.he lives with his parents and answered the phone every night to me.i snooped on him on his lunch break when he keeps his cell off and found he was with male colleagues.NO EVIDENCE!!! he is angry at me now, and the more i call him the angrier he gets.i find if i leave off him he seems to be coming around, only to leave me when i start contacting him again.i miss him terribly he keeps saying he will meet me soon, but not yet..what do i do here??

Answer 1

you could start by giving him a break... like he loves you and you cant see it can you.. ... leave him alone .. and he will contact you... until then wait...... .... then just say sorry to him .. and mean it ,,,,,  

Answer 2

Give him some space.  You said yourself that your calling is just pushing him away.  He sounds like he is running scared of the comittment of a baby.  This maybe a temporary panic and he needs time to ressolve his own feelings towards you and a baby for life and accept them himself.  But your needyness, when he is already trying to blockout the comittment of a baby is making him worse.  I am sorry he is such a weak selfish man, but I feel this is the issue.  You pushing will only make him back away if he is unsure.  Try and concentrate on you and your baby, as he may not come back and this will knock you further.  Be sure in your path and your own feelings for you and your childs welfare.  eave him alone to contact you.  That way if he comes back it is becuse he is ready and for keeps for the two of you.  If he is unsure he will only run out again but next time on you and your child.  Do you want that for your baby?

Answer 3

If he is abandoning you when you need him, what makes you think he will be there for the baby?  You need to move on with your life, and get some counseling for your insecurity.

Answer 4

Haven't you asked this under a different account?  Maybe its coincidence.  If you are the same person, he isn't worth a d**n, leave him.  If not, you need to relax and don't call him anymore.  Let him call you.  If he takes longer than 2 weeks to call, he doesn't want you anymore and i would start moving on with my life.  You do need to tell him you are pregnant, before he thinks you are lying to get him back.

Answer 5

for one you need to back off give the guy some space maybe he isn't cheating. You have serious trust issues but don't let people fool you many people go through there better half email cell phone and so forth not matter what they say. Not all but a lot do! Just back off and give him some space let him come to you.

Your coming off to needy maybe hang out with friends on your own find a hobby something. He seems to be enjoying his life you should to instead of worrying what and where and who he is doing all the time. If your pregnant with his child then he needs to grow up he can't be out with his friends all the time. Living with his parents isn't going to work. He needs to take action and get ready for a baby instead of being away as much as he is. It sounds like he is kinda sorta trying to blow you off. All your going to do is make him want to leave the relationship by driving him crazy. You need to chill best of luck!

Answer 6

he's playing mind games with you. i think you should stop calling him somehow. stop giving him attention. clear your mind completely. and take good care of yourself coz you are pregnant and you need lots of special care. if he comes back to you, talk to him about your relationship. communication is the key to good relationships. so talk and talk and talk till you drop heheheh just kidding abt the dropping part. but do ask him abt his intentions. if you';re pregnant, he should be with you not his parents. don;t be too clingy. set a time to call him every day. for e.g, call him 3 times a day once in the morning, then afternoon and then evening. but don't show too much concern about what he's doing or who he is with. reverse the situation for a moment and think what you would feel if he was calling you so many times a day, suspecting who you're with and being all clingy and needy. do your own stuff when he's at work. and whatever time you spend with him, make it quality time by NEVER FIGHTING, only have constructive arguments sometimes. respect him, show lots of love and affection and be supportive. listen more and speak less. ask him how his day was, but thats abt it. don't interrogate him like a cop. everyone tends to run away from ppl who are too interrogative, too nosy, clingy, insecure or mistrustful. trust him blindly and if you can't trust him then therez no point in being with him. btw doesn;t seem like he's cheating coz you already checked and never found anything. trust him!! good luck!

Answer 7

Give the guy a break, your driving him away.  Now that your knocked up you need him more then ever, in your future.  So leave him alone, if he loves you he will be there when you really need him.  If your that insecure you need some help from a specialist.  Some people may say if you keep think the other person is cheating it is because you are thinking of cheating, if he is always gone who's kid is it anyway?