Thinking about s*x alot?

Question

I'm 16..in grade 11.

I never had a boyfriend or kissed. Seriously ALL but two or three of my friends have had s*x or hooked up with a guy before. I haven't. I just think it's awkward, like what do you do? I mean i know but..like, do you shave down there? do guys care? I have stretch marks on my inner legs, do guys care about that? Even a really ugly guy got a *******, and some ugly girl had a boyfriend before. And i'm not ugly. My guyfriends older brothers are SO SO hot. I can't say that in front of him because he will get mad, but OMG i would so do them anyday(they are both 18..twins) and they drive us home from school and OMG.

Answer 1

Shaving is a plus but not a deal maker/breaker

No one cares about stretch marks

Don't do anything with your friend's brothers, better to have a friend than s*x

Not that s*x isn't good lol

Answer 2

Don't get yourself in a hurry to have s*x.  When you decide to, if you don't know the guy well, you'll want to clean up, nobody likes a hippie bush, you don't have to go bald but trim yourself and get rid of any bikini line hair.  Use condoms! ITS A MUST! STDs are all over the place and you don't want a baby

Answer 3

Just warning you, the first time hurts.

Yea you probably should shave down there, guys like it better that way.

No they dont care about stretch marks, thats not what were looking at.

Im not sure if they would do you either, just because you are their friends little sister...

I know I wouldnt do that to my friends little sister just out of respect for him.

Answer 4

Guys don't care about stretch marks on your inner legs, trust me.

Because they have them too!

And, by the way you type, you seem sort of immature.

"OMG I WOULD SO DO THEM ANYDAY!!!"

No. You're too YOUNG. Wait until you're 18+.

Answer 5

RELAX...HAVE PATIENCE, THAT DAY WILL HAPPEN. YOU'LL BE THANK FULL YOU WAITED.

Answer 6

yeah, i'm the same way except im a guy so thats harder lol, i think most guys don't care about the shaving, but I could be wrong

Answer 7

dang, jailbait  

Answer 8

It's probably hormones kicking in.  

Answer 9

were do u live im 16 too...message me

Answer 10

wait til marriage

Answer 11

hahaha its just your hormones.

i lost my virginity at 14, and i'm 16 now and a senior in high school.

Answer 12

Well be patient, you will do anything you want when you really want it and you are ready for it. Each person is different, it's not important if your friend had s*x, what's important is what you want. Since you find it awkward maybe you're not ready for it. The thing is that nothing must force you to do it, you must have s*x cause you want to have s*x and you feel good about it and not cause everybody else is doing it. Take your time and remember that you will do it when you feel ready for it. And I must tell you that stupid skin marks have no meaning when other feelings get in the way! And besides that maybe it's sth like your trade mark, think it like that! ;)

Answer 13

hey im 16 in grade 11! umm ur prbly gonna think about s*x as a teeanger. yea defintely shave down there, and just try to be more open/ friendly.

Answer 14

Normal teenage hormones. I think about the same things all the time (and I'm 14).

Answer 15

Question is?

Answer 16

dont hook up with anyone older or just hook up for looks because it will ruin the way you look at s*x.

Answer 17

Its normal.Your having hormons,but making love should be speciel and with the person you love and care for.Don't just have s*x with any random person just because he is hot.trust me you will regret it later in life.

Answer 18

ok im 17 and yeah i shave just cuz i think that hair is gross but most guys think thats crazy hot. i also have stretch marks but im not fat, if ur with guy hes obviously not going to see u naked first so they dont really matter that much unless hes really shallow. and for one ive beenwith my bf for 2 yrs and still have not had s*x, and most of my friends have. dont get me wrong its not like im trying that hard not to have it its just that im scared of getting pregnant and the times i have tried he couldnt get it in and even though he was pushing pretty hard it would go and it hurt like crazy. i would seriously advise that u dont do and or try it b cuz the consequences could be painful in more ways than one. ive learned from being too eager and so i dont try n e more, im just waiting for as long as i can so i dont wind up pregnant in high school. iff u need n e thing i would be more than happy to help just im me or e mail me ([e-mail])

Answer 19

Im a guy and i have had a few girl friends and felt the same way you do minus the shaveing :) but really i know its awkward when you havent had your first kiss but youll find someone i mean i did. and if your with the right person they wont care what you look like they'll like you for who you are not what you look like.

Answer 20

its just hormones

Answer 21

so??? do it

Answer 22

LOL, have you tried talking to any guys at school? Is there anyone that you feel you can talk to and that you two like the same things? Thats usually the first step toward a boyfriend.

BTW, a lot of women shave down there including me but...... thats really up to you

Answer 23

I didnt kiss a guy till i was 14.

All my friends had ages before.

I had s*x when i was 16.

It was actually great, didnt hurt or nothing, like everyone always saysss.

I got mills of stretch marks, i hate them, buh they have never cared (Y)

Ive had s*x with like 5 people now.

Im 18.

So dont worry.

Your time will come :)

Answer 24

you should wait to have s*x. take it from me, i didn't wait and i really regret it.

Answer 25

and your question is...?

Answer 26

shave please, pubes makes some one looks careless and older, and as far as scars go, most guys dont care,  your hormones are spiking up because you are in that age but what you do know is how you will be for the rest of your life

Answer 27

where do you live? im 17... email me

Answer 28

join the club. i can't look at a female without thinking about boinking them

Answer 29

Welcome to the club.