This 1 person keeps embarrassing me in the front of people?

Question

well this 1 person in a higher grade (not saying) then me keeps saying really as in making fun of me in front of the whole entire Junior High and then everybody starts laughing or just start to join her but when i asked her why she makes fun of me she just said but its fun but here is the weird part she only does it when theres a whole lot of people around us or when shes with her friends also her friends only say stuff about me when they're with that girl that keeps making fun of me. also the girl dosent know me and i have no idea who she is but she started calling me name for no reason. so can somebody PLEASE tell me how can i handle this problem before i go crazy and end up killing her cause im not scared to do that if thats the only way to get her to leave me alone (please dont tell me to get in a fight with her cause i am trying to avoid that). also my parents did call up to the school so my mom and dad can talk to either 1 of her parents either today or tomorrow morning.

Answer 1

Ah I remember those junior high days of being teased bad. She is insecure my dear with whatever personal issues and so to cover up her insecurity she strives for attention by picking on what she believes to be the weak. Ever seen the movie Mean Girls, well it's kind of like the story line of that movie. She's preying on you because she sees a weak point and knows it bothers you and that is why she keeps at you. My only advice is to avoid her as best you can  let her see that what she is saying isn't bothering you, once she sees she can't get a reaction then it becomes no fun and she will find another victim.  Heck if anything laugh along with her, show her it doesn't bother you and that you are comfortable enough with yourself you can  laugh at yourself.  And please dont hold it in, if anything talk to a counselor that is what they are there for after all....bottling emotions up inside till they explode is never  the best idea I know I've been there hon. Keeping you in my thoughts  keep your chin up high and smile because you are a wonderful person!

Answer 2

Most likely she's doing it for popularity gain and attention. She's what we call a Bi+ch.

Hello world! The word of the day is: Bi+ch.  *********!

You already confronted her about it, went and had your parents call the school...most likely if your parents call her parents and they talk to her...she'll let the whole school know that you "tattled". I'm not saying fight her, but you're going to have to come up with your own criticizing way of getting back at her. You have to stand your ground, otherwise she's going to keep picking on you.

Answer 3

I smell a hater...she's probably jealous of you. That's one of the main reasons why an idiot like her would go through such trouble to embarrass you in front of other people. You can either ignore OR step up to her to prove to her you aren't scared of her. Hopefully she'll leave you alone after both your parents talk it out. If she still messes with you confront her again, tell her to back off and that you're not scared of her. If it comes to a confrontation, make sure you have a few of friends with you that you can trust just in case you both end up in a fight and they try to jump you.

I had a similar problem with a bully in high school, and it only got worse after my mother had a talk with the girl's mother. So I took matters into my own hands (literally) and beat her azz...After that she didn't mess with me again.

Answer 4

I guess you could charge her with harassment. And if you do cry people may feel bad for you and stop making fun of you. Or you could just say stuff back.

Answer 5

Follow her to the restroom or try to be with her alone and talk to her and let her know how strong you are.Good luck!

Answer 6

Have a tough friend that you go and make threaten her or have them put something embarrassing on her like toilet paper ~ maybe a good looking guy or popular guy could assist you w/ torture of your own to her ;~)