This 21 yr old guy keeps pursuing me and i'm only 16, pls help?

Question

hi im a 16 yr old girl, and theres this 21 yr old guy in my building who showed interest in me since last year. In really dont like this guy for many reasons. one, he has 3 or 4 children with different young women. and he doesn't even talk to them. 2. he used to beat his ex-girl who was my neighbor until her brother moved in.

and 3. this guy proved to be the most disrespectful guy my trying to get my attention. can you believe he called me a s**y little slu*t. also since i refused him, he's been telling people that

he had sexual relations with me. and hes tormenting my image and making me look bad. do you think i should confront him?

Answer 1

Get help from your parents or some other adult!  What he's doing is sexual harassment, slander, and maybe even a form of molestation or sexual assault. Let your parents or law enforcement confront him and deal with him.  And try not to let his comments and behavior cause you any problems or negative feelings about yourself, but if that has already happened, find someone you trust to talk with about this.  Whatever you do, don't let this go on.

Answer 2

for your safety call the cops and tell them. they will protect you. also move away from him if you can.

carry mace, learn how to protect yourself, tel people where your going at all times, have a cell phone on you so people ca reach you, give you family and friends that cell number, and never travel alone.

i know it sound paranoid but for the time being its better to be safe then sorry

Answer 3

You need to tell your parents or an adult you trust. This 21 year old man can be in huge trouble, your only 16. if you were my daughter... I may have to put a hurten on him. Seriously, he is wrong for doing this. This is sexual harassment and it is against the law for an adult to do this to another adult, so... it's much more serious for an adult to do this to a minor. Blow the whistle on this creep, tell the police.

Don't keep this to yourself, it may get worse and could harm you mentally and physically.

Answer 4

Don't confront him!!!

Call the police. File a report. Get his name on the record.

You need to build a paper trail against this guy.

Find out if you can get a protective order. Make it very clear to him that you don't want to have anything to do with him and then walk away. You're not bound by him and he doesn't have shackles on you, so walking away should be easy for you to do.

Call the police and have this filed.

Do this now.

Answer 5

You do need to do something. Have you taken any other advice? Is his behaviour harrassing you? You might be able to inform the police who will have a word with him. An other alternative might be to get advice of Childline - 0800 1111 (www.Childline.org.uk)

Hope that helps. Good luck

Answer 6

Hi.  Please tell one of your parents that this is happening.  This jerk really needs to leave you alone.  You don't need to have his next baby!  And you don't want to be a mom at 16!  You can even tell him that you have talked with your parent(s) about him harrassing you ... even it it's not true... and that he needs to BACK OFF!  You must take bold steps to let him know that he better not mess with you... otherwise he may try to take advantage of you while you are home alone.  If he does not get the hint... be clear with him and tell him that you want NOTHING to do with him and that if he does not leave you alone & stop harrassing you, your and your family will be taking out a Restraining Order against him.

**Please don't try to resolve this situation alone.  Get responsible adults involved so that they are aware of what is going on and can look out for you.  DO NOT BE ASHAMED TO ASK FOR HELP!  If you can't talk to a parent, talk to a neighbor or school counselor...get a responsible adult involved.  This guy needs to get the message that if he continues to mess with you, LOTS of people will witness it and will be there to protect you!

I know this is a scary and overwhelming situation to be in... for a teen or any age female.  You must be strong and stand up for yourself.  This is YOUR life and future you are protecting!  Your life is precious... don't let this creep ruin it for you!!!  You deserve so much better than him!!!!!

Answer 7

Call the cops

Answer 8

Telling lies about you is slander and you can sue his butt off!  That aside, have your dad, brother, whoever  tell him they will beat the c**p out of him and have him arrested if he messes with you because you're a MINOR!

Answer 9

Tell your parents NOW!! Do not go near him and confront him, if he beat someone he will beat you or worse. If your parents can't help then see if you can get other adults to help or even the police.

Answer 10

they are three things u can do

telling lies about u is slander and u can sue

u can file a sexual harrassment claim against him

or u can move