This Girl said that we would never go out. Any tips on how to change her mind? HELP, ASAP!!!!?

Question

This girl Kim lives four houses down from me and were not very close but were still friends. I was texting her and i brought up the thought of going out and she said that would never happen, Will she change her mind once she gets to know me? Are alot of girls like this? Please Help!!!

Answer 1

First get to know her better that would help then maybe just maybe her mind will change

Answer 2

No. She will never go out with you. EVER. Don't be creepy!

respect that she said no.

Answer 3

Just forget about her. If she was interested then she would've said "sure" or something. Girls don't say that just to make guys suffer. Look for someone else. Later when she sees you with another girl and being happy then that's when she'll know that she lost her chance to a nice guy.

Answer 4

ive said that to the dude living across the street from me, but he totally has a chance.

i said it playing hard to get because i think he knows he has a chance.

but idk maybe she just doesnt like you like that.

but if she seems like shes into you even a little bit, then she might be wanting you to try a little harder.

yeah let her get to know you, make her laugh and smile and show her that even thou she said that, you still want her.

you might still have a chance bud. =]

goodluck.

Answer 5

Her very direct answer means drop it. Move on.

Answer 6

well keep talking give it time or maybe she just doesn't see you in that way

hope i helped

Answer 7

Why don't you try backing off for now?

Let her know that if she would like to, that, you would love to take her out.

Meanwhile, go out and enjoy yourself. You don't have to be buck wild, but you need to keep yourself busy in case she really is not interested.

You can date platonically until you feel like you're ready to move on BUT do not play games. Don't send mix messages either.

Answer 8

To actually say "it will never happen" seems bitchy, i wouldnt waste my time on her.Find someone who will appreciate you and someone you dont have to automatically work for to get.

Answer 9

She said no, just accept that. If you don't back off she will find it a bit creepy and may not want to even be friends with you. Don't keep asking, don't try to change her mind and don't turn this into an obsession ie. stalkerish. Just chill and find someone else.

Answer 10

Usually there's an initial attraction. Even if she didn't like you, if she saw the possibility at all she wouldn't have said that. Unless you two are at the age where she's playing hard to get, but I wouldn't count on that. She might change her mind, but don't try too hard. Because no, not all girls will immediately say that they don't want to go out with you, because in fact, one will want to go out with you eventually and you will like her and forget about Kim.  

Answer 11

Girls are mostly like that yes. And the more time that you spend with her, the more you'll start to grow on her. If u like her, just keep with it. Persistence is a good quality..but don't be pushy about it. Let her come to you in her own time.

Answer 12

okay take it from me, she will not change her mind. i am in the same situation, except i am the girl (kim) and not the guy.

sorry.

Answer 13

well if they call you their friend... NEVER!!! Until they go through 13 horrible breakups and realize a close friend that knows them would be best... They are supposed to be smart but they'll stay with the same abusive boyfriend for 2 years, say they want someone like you and then go out with some other Dbag and leave you in the dirt useless. Its happened a bunch of times to me. Best friend and exactly what they want but won't let see the light of day.

Answer 14

No means No - go find someone worth your time

Answer 15

i would just move on she isnt interested

Answer 16

She is not the only girl in the world!Do not beg her.

Answer 17

sorry dude yes alto of girl girls are like that

i addmit i do it sumtimes 2

if u like try try try 2 change her mind u might make it look like stalking

and if u asked her taht then it gonna be all akward when shes around u again

next time let the gril know u first then ask her

Answer 18

You say you're not very close.  You need to change that.  Become better friends with her first then slowly start flirting with her, working your way into her life more and more, little by little.  If she responds positively, obviously, keep doing what your doing.  If not, just back off a little.  There's a possibility that she might change her mind once your closer, but then again there's always the possibility that she's just not the girl for you.  Give it a try =)  Hope I helped.

Answer 19

ask her again in person. that might work better.

Answer 20

she might think that u were making a joke and didnt want to make u feel awkward