This Guy wont leave me alone!?

Question

Ok so this dude I know called Cyle (ya it is spelt like that) wont leave me alone!

Ok ill start at the beginning!

From when I was 7 - 13 he was my next door neighbour and I never liked him because he always lied about everything and he use to hit me! OW-CH!

Then I moved away, and recently in the last year! I'm 15 now! He added me on bebo and he writes me mail everyday telling me he loves me and wants to be with me and he even dumped his gf Stacy because he thought that if he did that I would go out with him! Now hes just becoming obsessive!

I cant go out with him though as I really don't like him! Hes not ugly or anything I just dislike his attitude!

He was talking to Stacy like this and now he writes to her on bebo and calles her a s*lut and a w***e and a ******!

He is also a mummys boy and tells his mum everything and his mum is friends with my mum and then she will tell my mum! If you get me!

He keeps asking me out and I keep saying no I cant but he just askes again and again!

Loads of people are mad at me and saying why are you being so mean to him but Im not!

And if I did go out with him he would pressure me to do all sorts of gross and sick things! Mainly s*x which I am NOT having with him! ewwness!

Does anyone have any ideas on how to get him off my case! as telling him Im not intrested doesnt work and neither does anything else!

Please please please help!

xoxo

Answer 1

Right!, whats his bebo? give me it and i'll give him some S**t.

put him in his place and stuff..

look on my yahoo profile thingy and i got all sorts of things you can add me on to let me know what it is

i'll tell him to keep clear of you...

what u could do is probably make a new msn account or something pretendin to be some guy that likes u and tell him to keep away otherwise ull beat the cr@p into him.

Tell ur mum, she might be able to have words with his mum to tell her son to back off a little and leave you alone .. .  

Answer 2

I'm not sure what "bebo" is, but I'm guessing it some sort of messenger.  If so, DELETE him (and block him if necessary).  Then simply reiterate him that you are not interested.  

There was a boy who sounds similar to this one who acted similarly to me.  Everytime I would see him around town, I was sure that he would call me that night (he was a bit obsessive, too).  There wasn't anything that wrong with him (he too was really annoying as a boy), but there was NO chemistry and the thought of doing anything with him was gross (hate to say it, but it really was!)

What I did with this guy was simply tell him I wasn't interested everytime he asked.  I felt bad doing it, I started feeling mean sometimes, but I wasn't interested and I definitely didn't want to lead him on.  "You're not my type."  "I'm not looking for someone right now."  maybe even "I'm interested in someone else." would be good things to say.

Hope that helps!

Answer 3

I had an obsessive stalker when I was younger. Stalked me and asked me out everyday for 2 weeks, until I gave in so that he would just shut up! Big mistake! So my advice is get an adult involved, whether it be a teacher or parent. It is not healthy for him or you to have to deal with this.

Answer 4

Tell him plain and simply you don't like him. You dislike his attitude, you hate his looks and his very presence makes your skin crawl. Tell him you,ll rather date a lizard than date him. Chances are you wont stay friends after you tell him all these but that should get the message across to him. If it still doesn,t work, tell your mum to tell his mum that you will get a restraining order against him if he does,t stay off. And to your friends who thinks you are being mean, tell them to go date him if they are so concerned.

Answer 5

Block him. Duh. That's all you have to do. And why'd you accept his friend request in the first place?

Answer 6

Mainly all you have to do is tell him your not intersted && if he dosen't get it then you should get yourself a boyfriend && make your bf make it clear to him that he can't have you. Better yyett you should curse him out or tell him dht you are a l***o! and yeah tell your mom that he's stalkerish && your dad && im sure they will do some thing bout that. And I hope you don't lead him on && maybe u shuld delete yur bebo [?] && create a new one dht he doens't noe anything about.,

Answer 7

it sounds like when he was 7-13 he knew you and begun to like you, so if he started to like you wen he was seven thats 8 years, if he liked you for that long that no wonder he's being wierd, being in love with someone for that long and not being with them could easily drive a mans heart crazy, try sitting down with him insted of just saying no, try to tell him easily that your sorry, so he wont be upset

hope this helps a bit

Answer 8

Tell him u are in love with someone else

Answer 9

men are weird. some show they are interested in you by being morons.

i know, i've been there, beat him up and that was it. hehe. anyway, since ur mum is a friend of his, then easiest way is to tell her about him,and how he keeps bugging you and she should talk to is mum about it, hopefully getting her to talk to him. u should talk to his ex too, and tell her how u are in no way interested in him just so you won't have her on ur tail too. ye  could become friends.

Answer 10

if you haven't yet, msg back to him and just let him know that you aren't interested in him yet, but you still want to be friends, or whatever. if he continues, have a discussion with him about how you really don't feel uncomfortable with this. good luck hunny. =)

Answer 11

Tell your mum to tell his mum.

Or call police.

Or (don't recommend, but this is sometimes last hope) get few of your guy friends to come with you to his house personaly and tell him to f*ck off or else...

Good luck, I did have something similar... :l

Answer 12

agh the same thing happended to me the stupid guy was stalking me and everything.. i was forced to go out with him but i dumped him the same day lalala in front of his friends too ever since that day hes been gone d:

Answer 13

Block him from bebo.

Tell your mum then she can have a word with his mum and she can tell him to leave you alone. Or you could tell the police its classed as harassment and he could get a restraining order so then he will have to leave you alone.

Answer 14

Tell your mum first off. She'll be on your side.

Show her the messages.

Then tell him your not interested. If he wont leave you alone delete him from BEBO, block him and then ignore.

If anyone else says anything about how mean you are for not going out with him just say

"I am NOT interested in him and have told him so right from the start. Leave me alone."