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This asian girl thinks shes better than me, what should I do, helpp!!?

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i only wrote such a stereotypical question to get your attention, but I actually do have a problem. In my school there are plenty of asian, extremely tanned rich girls. There all skinny and pretty i wont lie, and I definitely think my style and physique is just as good cause im rich too. i am the soccer team, and this girl is asian tanned, w/e. shes pretty im glad shes on the team, but she always acts like shes already on varsity and like shes the best(even though i run circles around her) and when we had to run laps, i was walking with my friends to talk since we just had gym, she runs by and says, "this is supposed to be a workout." and i felt like running up to her and cussing her out, but i held it in and ignored it. ESPECIALLY SINCE she comes to practice late everyday, and for the whole 2 weeks she never ran, the day she finally runs she shoves it in our faces, like honestlyy. now im black and sometimes i feel like she looks at me like im beneath her, and she is asian but i feel like she tries hard to be white(just saying) like she only hangs out with her kind and whites, she has no black friends, and ive tried to talk to her but she just treats me like im nothing, can i talk to her in a corner about her attitude?

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  1. Here is where the problem lies:

    She has power over you.

    Don't believe me? Here you are writing a question about her on your time, but do you think that she even thinks about you at all on her time? I doubt it. Whatever she does affects you, but whatever you do probably doesn't affect her in the least. Is that the way you want it? No one would want it that way. Force away the power she has over you and you won't be bothered by her again.

    Besides, what you described of her, how would that make her out to be within her heart? Is she a good person? Or is she a self-centered pretentious vain brat? If she is the latter, then who cares what she thinks? She is obviously someone that you wouldn't care about or value as a person anyway because of the way she is, so why put any value on her opinion of you? How much value do you think she would put on your opinion of anything? Not much, by the way you described her. So why care? Let her live in her little world and let her become to you what she should have been in the first place: nothing.


  2. It take 2 to dance ; I mean she  is   playing with you and your self esteem because up until now you had allow it ; stand up for your rights ; and let her know in a clear language ; to leave you alone ; because you do not want any contact with her . She knows that you find her cute and she is using you like a puppet Make it stop this game ; and it will stop ;; Source life experience I am 65 yrs  

  3. cornering her and having a go at her is only going to make her see you as even lower. if she's already racist against you for being black, how would you propogating the stereotype help your case at all???


  4. dont worry about her i know plenty of girls like that,extremely annoiyng isnt it?

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