This boy keeps harrassing me :S?

Question

well theres this boy who i have been friends with for a year, and just now i signed onto msn and he keeps saying to me why i dont i come round yours + keep you warm + wake you up. i dont like him in that way though! and i dont know how to make him stop without offending him! help?

Answer 1

just say.. well u can come round but u mite get ur head kicked in by my bf!

or if uw ant to be polite just say no thanks. im L*****n! lol

Answer 2

just  tell  him  to   stop

Answer 3

Dont worry dear, this happens to every girl and boy in their early age. you may not like this but this will surely work out.

you both meet once in any public place like coffee shops, ask him directly and blunt but not rude why is he doing this,. what wrong you did to him for him top do this, and mail his answer to my ID and i will surely help with this and any more problems under the sun mail me i will surly help you out.

Regards

Loved one

Answer 4

Block him.

Answer 5

This boy doesn't sound like the type of guy that can take a hint, so you should tell him bluntly that you don't want to be anything more than friends. Then you might think about backing off on the friendship for a while until he gets his head on straight.

I would also save his emails because if he doesn't listen to you and quit it you might have to ask somebody else for help, and the emails are proof that you're not the one with the problem, he is.  

Answer 6

Tell him:

We're friends and I want to keep it like that because you a nice person, but none of my other guy friends talk to me the way you do so it can make me feel uneasy sometimes.

He may ask: what do u mean? how do i talk to u different?

Tell him:

come round yours and keep you warm and all that stuff, you're probably just messing about but it still makes me feel uneasy. Do you get me?

He will get you I think, and carry on your friendship while he tries this trick on someone else : )

Answer 7

Tell him that you  are seeing someone else.  Be sure to talk this other person up.....like say how sweet he is and all the nice things he does for you.  The harasser will eventually puke and get over you.......If that doesn't work, have a guy call him up and tell him that you've been through a lot and that (make up a family issue or something) and say that "I am sure your a good person, but you really need to give her some space right now".  I've done this, and it has worked!  Don't threaten or provoke this guy, you don't know what he is capable of!  Be safe!

Answer 8

I had a guy who was pestering me for a date. After 4 months of pestering, I finally agreed to go on a date. I had a plan to get rid of him - I was going to act really frigid and be rude to him. I knew that he had a particular penchant for l*****g his girlfriends butt holes - don't ask me why, it's sick. A girl I knew went out with him, and on the second date, at his place, while they got kissing, he was trying to poke his tongue up her butt hole. She found that a bit sick so ended it right there.

II was nervous and nervousness usually gives me an upset stomach.

We spent a great evening together, we went out for a meal and went to the cinema. The restaurant we went to wasn't the type I'd normally go to, it was a tad cheap and he was reluctant for us to order starters.

Anyway, after the cinema, he'd suggested that I come back to his place, which I politely declined. He tried to kiss me, which I allowed briefly, but said that I wasn't going to do this right now. Anyway, at a desserted bus stop, he got down on his knees, got under my skirt and started to kiss my b*m cheeks (I was wearing thongs, so the cheeks were all for the taking). As It felt good, I allowed it. Then he removed my thongs, he simply pulled them down (I was standing). Then he did something predictable but dirty - he started to l**k my b*m hole. I tried to pull away but he had his arms around me and assured me It'd be OK. I could see a car approaching with it's headlights on, and with the nervousness (which gave me an upset stomach all day), the fear of the car driver seeing us, and with him having his tongue in my b*m hole, I just squirted some diorrhoea like poo all over his face and chest.

It wasn't deliberate - it just came.

He didn't know what to say, tried to wipe it on my skirt but I leaped away, but fell as my thongs were round my ankle.

"Im sorry" I said and reminded him that I did try and stop my l*****g my b*m hole.

He took off his t-shirt, wiped off the mess as much as he could - it was runny with small lumpy bits . I told him to stay where he was, and I;d walk to the petrol station and buy some bottled water, so he can clean himself. He could not go there as he was smelling of poo.

I went round the corner, wiped my bum with some paper tissues from a petrol station and rang my dad who picked me up and took me home. The guy, I never heard of again.

Answer 9

say you'll cut his d**k off

Answer 10

No need for any bad comments towards him just don't seem that interested ie. take 2-3 minutes to reply. If you asks you why just say a bit busy. He'll get the idea. If this doesn't work.

He is yourfriendd and has been for a year just say 'I'm sorry but I know your only kidding but please your making me feel uncomfortable.' or something along those lines.

Answer 11

Just tell him to leave you alone, don't worry about hurting his feelings. Sounds as though he has none. You could also block him. Good Luck!