This can't be good??

Question

my friend is in grade 8 and high school at my school starts in grade 8. Anyways there is this guy he is going into grade 11 in sept. he is 16 . He is really cute and has lots of friends and could get any girl he wants. But he asked out my friend Stephanie who's only 12! her birthday is on august 22. I know him somewhat we have hung out a few times and i just didn't think he would be the type of guy who would ask out a grade 8. I don't get it can someone help me please i need to talk to her and tell her that she is only asking for trouble if she dates him. But i don't know what to say because i feel she will think I'm jealous.

btw I'm 15 and always look out for her, she's like my little sister.

Answer 1

dude... no way. DON'T let her date him!!

He just wants s*x from her because she is young and prob thinks she is easy...

Just tell your friend you don't trust him or something. If she thinks you are jealous then she may learn the hard way.. hope not .. but yea

Answer 2

maybe you are jealous. back off its her decision

Answer 3

1. get a boyfriend then talk to her, making it not seem like you are jealous

or

2. confront the guy

Answer 4

i know it might be hard, but let them go out. when your as young as them, four years is a big difference. They'll probably find that out as they date.

Hope I helped!

~Paige

Answer 5

Tell her mom in an anonymous letter.

Answer 6

Ok- This is a very weird situation.. i am a 21 F and it seems to me that he is looking for something else if you know what i mean. Now a days guys like the younger girls for some reason, but bottom line is- she shouldnt even be THINKING about dating someone in 11th grade.. 5 years older than her.. when you are my age, five years is no big deal, but when you are minors.. 5 years is a huge difference..in 2 years he will be 18, and she will only be 14! That is not going to look good! Good luck x

Answer 7

does he know she is 12 does she look 12 is she really developed for her age for example does she have a bigger bust and hips older face for her age ??

i think if he knows her age he is going out with her to take advantage of her body cuz thats what guys do because younger girls especially if they are not developed are more likely to be taken advantage of cuz theyre more likely to do whatever he says and shes probably a virgin so he might force her into doing something she dont wanna do..

Answer 8

Thats so sweet of you to look out for her. :]

But anyways, you should probably keep her away, because hes like 4 years older, & your friends probably just gonna get in trouble.