This dream keeps me wondering?

Question

Well I'm 14 years of age, and I had a dream about that I had s*x with a man much older then me (18 years old or older) and I enjoyed it (but I'm a virgin) and my mum came in my room and she went spastic on me that I lost my virginity yelling and throwing stuff everywhere, and as each year went by I kept defending him to my mum about her saying that his destroying my life, but I was so in love with him to care what my mum said..

What does it mean, and I don't know this guy that I did it with.

Help, because some how its emotionally effecting me..

Answer 1

Well, as a young girl of 14 years, it is very normal to dream like that.  But dream is not realistic.  Never worry about a dream in this case. I think you will probably understand more about life as years carrying on. I wish you good luck.

Answer 2

It's a growing dream.

On the one hand, you're beginning to think of yourself in adult terms; on the other, you don't feel that you have permission to follow through.  So you have this emotional conflict as a result.

Now, the good news is that this is just a matter of timing:  your real mother (as opposed to your dream-mother:  they aren't the same people) I have no doubt wants you to have fulfilling adult relationships and experiences when you're grown-up.  And since that will happen on its own schedule, without being rushed and without being delayed, you know this is a situation that will work itself out.

The way we grow into adults is that we try on adult roles, in just the same way that as children we play dress-up, putting on grown-up clothes.  You'll find yourself in your mind trying on adult experiences, adult roles and adult emotions, and that's fine:  as you become an adult, you'll find yourself mostly in those roles and less and less in childhood roles.

That's all the dream is:  just notice the conflict between those two sides, understand that a 14 year old girl ought to have both sides going on, and know that it'll work itself out naturally.

Conrad.

Answer 3

there are three possible interpretation of your dream:

1) that maybe a forewarning. maybe in you're dream, you are warned that situation might happen in the future if you don't be careful. so you should be careful from now on to avoid that thing to happen

2) that dream maybe what you're body wanted. some claims that what you long for, what you wanted <or your soul> is presented in your dreams. that incident might be what your soul wants

3) and lastly, it is something that will not happen, the inverse of your dream. like if you dream you're dying, that will not happen <soon>, instead, you'll live longer. so in your dream, it may mean that you'll have the intercourse not now but in long time.

Answer 4

If it was just a dream, you are still a virgin.  A virgin is someone who hasn't had physical s*x with a man.

If really someone drugged you & raped you, then you aren't a virgin anymore.  Being drugged can seem like a dream.

So, I hope that wasn't the case.

I have had dreams of near s*x, but don't recall of actually having s*x... And most of the time the person in my husband.  But it was just a dream that does mean something.  So? If this was a dream, it means something.

But I am concerned that someone drugged you & that would actually be a rape situation.

And it could be a dream that this may come to pass in your life.  Give the dream to Jesus.  Ask Jesus what to do.  And if you see someone who looks like this guy of the dream, you will understand that the dream was a warning dream.  So use extra caution & realize how it would hurt your mother if you don't wait till marriage.  Waiting till marriage is really a wise thing to do to see if the guy really loves you.  It is a test.  If he is willing to wait till marriage, then that is a sign he has respect for your virginity.

Answer 5

You are are a normal girl to be thinking that stuff.  Make your mum and I (you don't know me) proud by abstaining until marriage!!!

Answer 6

maybe you are worried that your mom wont accept your future guy if he is older and that she doesnt want you to pop your cherry at young age...this dream is just a "caution sign" in your life