This dream made me feel guilty and scared.?

Question

I dreamt that i was asleep and at 5 in the morning my ex was in my room trying to make out with me and i kept trying to push him off coz i didnt want my current bf to find out. I got so angry and started crying it felt like he was raping me and then i looked outside the window and a white car with rims was parked next my neighbors car and the person who drove the white car was stealing my neighbors tyres. I ran outside and my ex ran after me and we ran straight past my brother who was watching tv but he didnt notice us. I got scared that he was going to tell my bf that my ex was at my house but I went and confronted the person outside but he sped of so i started yelling at my ex saying "Why did u come here go away before anyone sees you!" so he went away and then i went to tell my neighbour about his tyres and he couldnt speak english and he didnt believe me so he set his dogs on me and the dogs were pink! ( he doesnt have dogs in real life). I woke up so scared and angry becoz I havnt seen or spoken to my stupid ex in more than a year and i dont ever want to see him coz he caused alot of problems with my current bf what does this dream mean?

Answer 1

You have been persecuted in some way by this ex and by people posing as friends but who are actually enemies lacking strength and bravery.  That's the meaning

Regards

Answer 2

Your ex seems to have intruded again - despite all of your rightful negative feelings about him, and you seem to still have things around you that are not fully suitable to you.

Guilt?  Understandable - but not deserved.  I will touch more on that after a few points:

The whole concoction revolves around complications he brings to you in this crazy early morning clash of events.  His pestering you in bed is an unpleasant recall of the past somehow - whatever his actions were when you were together there was something repugnant there.  

Whatever triggered this is part of the key to your dream - but it may be that your mind has held some burden of thought about him and you needed this affirming release from him.  The event next door gave you a rational reason to break away - but affirms that you felt the brunt of confounding complications in life when he was around.  That may have been distraction from essential details in life because of his own selfish demands - to the point that a neighbor, friend or relative might suffer when you might have helped.

Your brother's intransigent behavior indicates that your family may have been of little help in getting a grip on this guy in the past - that much falls to you to put and keep your world in order.  The neighbor's situation with his car indicates a frustration you have felt in trying to bring order and decency to the environment of your life.  The neighbor's misunderstanding underscores that - that you have felt misunderstood at times.  

Pink dogs?  Bizarro - which you may have found at times in some of the personalities about you - attacked by oddities even as you seek to do good for them.  They would be those around you who have self-interest at-heart and do not even respond when you only mean to help except to perhaps protest or attack you in some way themselves.

Consider taking all this as a gift from the dream - "so there, out with you, for good", so to speak, regarding the ex.  Intellectually you already would know that - but you may have had lingering details of frustration that held him oddly closer in your subconscious mind than you would have liked.  

Again, guilt?  It would appear related to the ex being present - which was beyond your control.  It may really relate to having thoughts of wishing things were different in some ways but that in so doing you are not appreciative or as accepting as you should be to what others around you are satisfied with.  

This may hold you back from actuating some needed changes in your life.  You show a strong deference for others despite a feeling that things could be better.  Allow yourself some room in this - you too are a deserving person, care about life about you and need to know you can rely on your own good judgment.  You do not have to give in to the pressures of all others around you all the time - nor should you feel guilt over a random dream that bubbled up because of some significant concerns you have about the life around you.

Consider that you may need to deal with a number of things around you to gain more freedom from what drove this dream - and to find release from guilt as well.  You too are a person to be respected.  Your dream indicates the energetic pro-active nature of one who cares and wants a decent place to live that is safe and rational.  Consider whether you are as well supported in this by others around you as you deserve - some changes may yet be in order.  

With the consitituion you show - the willingness to drive off an intruder, discourage a persistent ex and face the pink dogs of one you'd help only to be misunderstood - you have the strength to do so.  You need only to apply your good intellect and energy to find better solutions.  It may be frustration from some of these needs that triggered the dream in the first place, all other things in it being merely characters and scenary by which it was all projected in exaggeration to gain your attention.

Try then to use this dream to process these things consciously in the context that you know best and affirm to yourself that you have happily moved on from one situation - but may have a new awakening to continuing needs in the matter of improving your life further.  Find ways to work toward that - and do not feel guilty for it: it is your life.

All the best for happiness and success to you.

Answer 3

You just analyzed your own dream.  You are still angry with your ex because of the problems he caused.

He's been out of your life for a year and you're still angry with him.  This is a non issue (pink dogs) it is dragging you down and you don't know how to communicate your feelings ( non english speaking neighbor).

Get help with your anger because it is hurting you and,as you fear, it could impact your relationship with your current boyfriend.

Answer 4

I think it just means that you hate your ex and want nothing more to do with him.

Answer 5

For one you are worried about losing someone you care about very much but white means is a promise of  success of all that concerns you and pink means predicts unusually great success  so stop feeling guilty and enjoy