This girl at school.....?

Question

theres this girl in my school and i really dont like her because shes mean to me and other ppl. she loves horses (but she doesnt have on) and shes actually quite stuck up and thinks she knows everything about them. she rides my bus, too. one day on the bus after school when we pulled up at my stop in front of my house, my pony was out in the pasture. the girl kept looking at it and then she said "look at Lani's pony. it looks like its not taken care of. she shouldnt have a horse. shes a horrible owner" i was really upset because i take care of my pony. i groom him every day and sometimes twice. hes fed enough too. i personaly think shes just jealous because she doesnt have a horse and i do.

im still scared that my pony looks like hes not taken care of though and i dont want people to think that. heres a pic:

http://i309.photobucket.com/albums/kk369/horse_lover_and_rider/taffy.jpg

do you think he looks like hes not taken care of? and what should i say to this girl when she says this?

Answer 1

No your pony looks like it is perfectly taken care of but from the pictures it looks like it's too taken care of =) and say  that if she doesn't have anything nice to say to keep her stupid s****. comments to herself before her big mouth gets her in trouble with a higher authority!!!

Answer 2

take no notice of her!

your pony is lovely and definatly doesnt look un-cared for, this person is jelous and instead of keeping it to herself or getting over it, she feels she has to say something to make her look good. When even people who dont know anything about horses will be able to tell that the horse is well cared for.

There is absoluty nothing she can do. The horse is well cared for and no one can disagree or do anything. You have a lovely and well cared for horse and she doesnt. if she says anything else, tell her to get over it. Tell her the truth, that she is jealous and stuck up. Also you could remind her that, since you are the one with a pony, you know more about horse care ect than she does, and that she is wrong

good luck and be proud of your pony!

Answer 3

chances are, its her thats thumbing everyone down. i think your pony looks great, and not at all underfed! he looks relaxed in the picture, resting his leg... he looks like he just dont care!

Answer 4

Your Pony is SOOOO CUTE!! He looks perfect shes just jelous just tell her to s***w off! lol

Answer 5

The best thing to do is ignore her or even better try being nice to her. Maybe even invite her to come over and ride your horse a little. Most of the time people like her make fun of other people because they are insecure about themselves. If you show her kindness she will return the favor to you and maybe even to the other people she is mean to. You two might even become good friends who knows

Answer 6

he is beautiful. he looks very well cared for. she is quite obviously dead jealous!!! when she says things like that go, 'oh,_____, you're just jealous. he is very well cared for, and if you disagree, well you just dont know how to look after a horse.' and 'well i would just hate to be a horse owned by you! my horse is very well taken care of, and if you tihnk horses need more attention, they would be absolutely sick to the stomach of seeing you! horses like other horses, not jealous little annoying girls."

Answer 7

he looks fine  shes jealous

Answer 8

Didn't look at the pic. It's obvious from what you said that it's well looked after. She sounds like what we call a b**ch

Answer 9

he looks awesome!!!dont worry shes just jealous because you have apony and she doesnt.just try talking to her and tell her that you dont like the way shes treating you and other people!!again he looks fine  ps it matters what you think of our answrs not of what  the dude that keeps thumbing down our answers.im a level 1 also so its not me

Answer 10

yup I would say she is very jealous, Just ignore her and don't argue with her... Your pony looks very nice I wouldn't worry about what she says about you or your pony!

Maybe take a different approach to the problem. If possible try and become friends with her and/or invite her over to see your pony or talk to her about why she keeps doing this.

Answer 11

NO, Your pony is so cute, and he looks like he is taken care of very well. Good Job! I wouldnt worry about it, SHe is just jealous, and if she says things like that again, tell her that shes just saying those things because shes jealous, and walk away. Dont get into an arguement with her and dont let her see that what she says upsets you. I myself dont have a horse and I may be jealous too, but if I were you I wouldnt worry about it. I see nothing wrong with your pony be is well fed and his coat and mane and tail are well brushed. Dont Worry About Her, she is nothing, remember you have a pony and she doesnt! Good Luck, and you are very lucky!

Answer 12

He looks fine, stop worrying.

I would just laugh at her and say " Yeah,cause you know everything"

She's just a stupid child, take no notice of her jealousy.

Answer 13

this answer may be kind of immature  but, next time you can say "well your horse isnt any better- OH WAIT. you dont have one. Oops"

and if you want , add in [after the oops part] "well, thats good, Not like you would be able to take good care of one anyways..."

I think shes either just jealous, or is just a mean person and enjoys trying to get others done. And your pony looks well taken care of . =]

Answer 14

Your pony is the CUTEST ever, very adorable. that girl obviously is super jealous. She probably will never get a horse of her own. You know that you are a great owner, so dont worry.

Answer 15

Dont be worried by her comment.

your pony is perfectly fine.

and he looks extremely happy and healthy.

Answer 16

OMG, Hes so cute!.....Dont let her comments bug you she is just jealous.

Answer 17

dint worry

ur pony looks exellent

she probally did it since she dosent have a pony she wandent you to feel bad about ur pony

but dont its gorgus

Answer 18

i dont know much about horses but it looks fine to me

oh and when she says this just tell her that shes just jealous 'cause you have a horse and she doesn't  in front of everybody

Answer 19

your pony it SOOOOOOOOO pretty and looks so healthy       yea she is jealous    just ignore her to ur best      maybe ask her if she wants to come over and hang with u and ur horse and maybe ride ur horse  then she'll stop   the girl who did it to me stopped after that

Answer 20

oh... she is just jealous... your pony is gorgeous! he looks healthy. just ignore her

Answer 21

Hey look, it's Mr Edd- The Talking Horse!  Well you horse looks saucily plump (A term used for a pleasantly fed being) and happy. So don' let that girl get to you. And tell her to stop looking in the mirror, because she probably looks like an unhealthy horse.

Answer 22

He looks like he gets groomed everyday, lol. But yeah, he looks very taken care of, don't let what someone says ruin your day. If you know you take good care of him, then don't worry. If she says something bad about your pony again, just tell her straight up that she doesn't know anything about horses.

Answer 23

Looks fine to me.. I'd tell her to get a life.

Just because  you have something that she doesn't.... doesn't mean she should degrade you..

Tell her... if anyone looks like their not taken care of...it's her.

Answer 24

to be honest the pony loooks veryyy handsome. tell her to **** off and mind her own buisness. shes jelus cuz u have a horse and she doesnt! good luck with this nasty beeotch you have here!

♥

Answer 25

WOW!! that horse is beauty-ful!! Ok that girl must not know anything about horses. Never think your no taking care of it she only wants crush your confidence and get more attention.  She is probably jealous as well.  As of what to say to her. Never say anything that shows fear or is mean it'll only show her what she's doing is working.  At school you could talk about how long it took you to clean your horse after its mud bath,, or how you think its getting spoiled from all those apples.  (any story will work.) Plus if this girl is mean to other people they will probably see though it. She only needs one person to believe her. YOU.  Also maybe when you get off the bus pet your pony so everyone can she  how much you love it.  I had a similar thing happen to me. Good luck hope this helps.

Answer 26

Ahh what a cutie and she is just mad. Anyways how could a grazing horse look like it's taken care of poorley anyway?Horses are always happy when grazing!

Answer 27

Your pony looks great, she was probably jealous or mad at you, the best thing you can do is ask her why she said that.... or ignore her....

Answer 28

your pony is gorgeous. she is obviously jealous because she doesnt have a horse of her own. i wouldnt even worry about her, she sounds like a jerk.

Answer 29

Your pony is adorable. If it were me, I would tell her that just because she's jealous of you, it doesnt mean she has to be mean to you. I would also tell her some things that can't be written on this website without the stars coming out. (My motto is: you can say anything you want about me, but if you make fun of my horses, man, you're going down.)

Now, I wouldn't reccomend this but...

Oh, you should totally ride your pony in front of her house and be like " Hey, beyotch! Wanna go for a ride? Oh yeah, you can't! HAHAHAH!"

...Sorry. :)

Answer 30

Your pony looks FINE, if anything a tad chubby. Next time the girl says something like that, say loudly that "my pony is fine, I know because I have a horse, you shouldn't be commenting because you don't have one and you'll never understand. Try educating yourself before you insult someone about something that isn't even true ANYWAY." If she gets offended and she tells you tell her she deserved it and you don't care and just walk away...good luck and your pony is ADORABLE!

Answer 31

This may not be the best planning on her part.  Your horse is very well taken care of.  First, don't make it so you <i> start</i> the argument, make her start it.  If she makes fun of you or is mean to you about your horse, shut her up.  Tell her how well taken care of he is and that she just wishes she could have one.  This is exactly what I would do, but make sure that if other people are involved that they know she started the argument