Question:

This guy at my work just talks and talks at me about really boring stuff. also he asks personal questions?

by | earlier

he seems really strange. he constantly asks me invasive questions and he just goes on and on and on about really little stuff like how he is selling something on trade me and this woman offered this and he brought it for this and he got another offer. and i don't care. he is in his 60s but he acts really ancient and goes on about his age. He points out if my rego has expired or if i need maintenance on my vehicle and he gives me unwanted advice and sometimes he makes inappropriate sexual comments and asks invasive questions. Do you think he is just socially inept or slow or what the heck is wrong with him? other people notice too that once he starts talking you can't get away from him. maybe its not just me. he is so annoying.

Tags:

Report

Answer The Question I've Same Question Too

Follow Question

10 ANSWERS

Sort By: Date | Rating

whenever he says something, tell him "dont want to know" "dont care" "dont bother telling me".

try and make him realise that you really are annoyed with him, that you dont care, maybe even pretend/show that you are offended and get him to stop. or just come out and say, "you ask stupid, invasive things, so stop"

eg. "your rego has expired"

   = "I dont care"

      "some sort of sexually harrassing question"

      "dont ask me things like that"



      "your car needs a service"

      "you dont have to tell me"
Report (0) (0) |   earlier
He's a lonely guy.

If you don't want him to talk to you excuse yourself after the 2-3 questions. If you don't answer, he'll get the message for a conversation needs at least 2 people .

Refer him to a Christian group.There are some sympathetic people there,
Report (0) (0) | earlier
young lady,you sound like a nice person,but this guy (who is younger than myself ) has you in a tizzy. I think the guy may be lonely and likes you as a person but because of age difference /loneliness/lack of dealing with younger people is s******g up badly ---try telling him quietly and without anger that you do not like some of his comments and that if they do not stop that you will be forced to tell the boss or the police.please do not look down on us old guys --I am an officer in CAP and teach safety / search and rescue to cadets from 12 years old to 18 years old & they like this old guy.
Report (0) (0) | earlier
Maybe he thinks your his friend?
Report (0) (0) | earlier
it could be that he has no else to talk to which is why he talks to you.
Report (0) (0) | earlier
He wants to **** you.
Report (0) (0) | earlier
Tell him you have work to do.
Report (0) (0) | earlier
He may be strange and old....bad combo. if u can, avoid him if u dont work directly with him. If he makes an sexual comments just tell him yeah thats inappropriate! And if hes asking invasive questions u dont need to answer. If you want u can even say hey pal lets keep this to a minimum and keep it professional capice? Ok maybe not in those words but u get the gist. If u see him coming ur way just look really busy or pick up the phone and start dialing lol good luck
Report (0) (0) | earlier
If he is doing things to make you feel uncomfortable, you should report him. THERE is NO excuse for acting the way he act towards you, socially inept or not.
Report (0) (0) | earlier
Lol just make him see your not interested into anything he's saying.

http://www.wikihow.com/Act-Annoyingly-Un...

(:
Report (0) (0) | earlier