This guy keeps reminding me of when we were close, why?

Question

This guy I got close to and asked me out says things like 'I still have that bottle of wine we had at mine.' and I said how come he still had it and didn't drink it & he told me I don't know, it reminds me of then. I said he should drink it & he said that we should all meet up & drink it together. What does he mean 'all'?

He also says a song reminds ohim of when we used to hang out.

Now why is he saying these things when he told me he couldn't commit because of university stress. The only reason we don't spend time alone is because of him!

He gets jealous of guys & flirts just like he wants me, even kisses me & massages me...he doesn't like me being alone with guys, but he doesn't want a girlfriend so why bring up the past all the time?

Answer 1

He still has a crush on you and wants to make a 'comeback". Give the man a chance.

Answer 2

he is selfish, he wants u to be his without any commitment, he wants the honey but he don't want to buy it, i mean he likes you but as u said he is committed to his university & wants to have fun with whatever girl he likes without comitment.  dump him & find yourself a true person

Good luck

Answer 3

He probably does want a girlfriend by the sounds of it, but maybe he's just scared of committing to someone or he doesn't wanna get hurt. Talk to him see whats up.

Answer 4

He still has hopes girl. He is trying to remind you of  how good it was with him. He is not over you yet. You will have to break it completely and avoid contact at all costs. It is going to hurt him, but he will have to get over you.

Answer 5

He sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. DO NOT let him think that he can treat you this way. Talk to him and let him know that HE has to make up his mind as to what he wants.You need to stop sending messages to him too(the massages and the kisses and hopefully nothing else) let him know that if he is going to commit those things are allowed, if not, they are not allowed and YOU move on.Be firm in your decision making.

Answer 6

Okay.. this one is a toughy but I've been through this for over a year with one man... The reason whyy he's being this way is because he has someone else!!! I hate to say it but it seems so true.. he's tied up with both of you.. and maybe you've never heard of him being with another woman (neither did I) but when a man wants to be with you and he does all these little things to please you and says all these little cute things to impress you but doesn't want to be with you at the moment.. trust me it's because there is another woman involved. He's hiding it because maybe he doesn't know who to choose and he doesn't want you to find out about the other woman because maybe he doesn't want you to leave just yet so that he can make up his mind. but girl.. leave him alone... if he loved you.. he would be with you... Love = sacrifice... nomatter what situation...

Good Luck