This guy likes me but i dont like him?

Question

one of my guy mates likes me, in the other way, im like ewww

that is just not right!!!

im always nice to him, so im worried i led him on :(

he obviously took it the wrong way, plz help im afraid i'll hurt his feelings!

Answer 1

just tell him straight out that u dont like him like that

Answer 2

Just tell him out right you don't like him and still be nice just watch what you say in case he takes anything the wrong way.

Answer 3

That's easy. This is better than you like someone and he doesn't like you.

You can do that. What I see you are doing sounds you are not doing wrong.

If he likes you, just tell him generously that you prefer being a friend with him. Don't hide. If you continue hiding from him, you will create this problem and you will develop his feelings for you. He will continue take it the wrong way. You have to avoid serious problem in the future. So, just do right thing. Don't be afraid.

If he gets mad and he demands you like him, that's his problem, not yours. Again, don't be afraid.

Remember, NO ONE CAN HAVE POWER OVER YOU. You have your life, and no one can control you.

I am sure you are doing fine. *smile*

Answer 4

Make comments like how your glad you two are friends, and how you appreciate and like that you are able to have a guy friend w/ out having to worry about him wanting more from you..  Also if you like another guy talk a LITTLE about him.  Not to much.  Jus mention something about it.  If that doesnt work and he brings it up just be right out with him.  Honesty is the best way.  But make sure you arnt doing things to lead him on.  Make sure you are just being nice and not flirtatious.  ya know.  

Answer 5

OMG!im in the same posistion

Just try n let him down gently try not to hurt his feelings

what i said was i think we should just be friends and that if things didni work out it would be weird just say sumthin like that

good luck with it =)

x

Answer 6

hiya there, ive had the same problem about 3 years ago. I told adam the boy who fancied me that i really like him as a friend and love spending time with him but i wudnt want to get any closer than that because it will destroy a long friendship. I asked him if he would like to see a film the weekend as friends and he said yes and ever since then weve got on really weell. If you ask him to see a film or a game of bowling he will b able to tell that u like him and you are closer as friends, and you havent really rejected him if you ask him if hes free the weekend, your just being friendly like your usually self. Invite some m8s if u dont feel comfy it just being you and him n u havent got much in common. Good luck and take care

lots of love

leanne x*x

Answer 7

just say do dont like him like that

Answer 8

You need to let him down gently and say you just want to be friends. Say your really sorry if you led him on and hes a great guy but you just dont feel about him that way .and you hope things wont be weird. Tell him they dont have to be weird if he doesnt want them to be because chances are he will still want to hang out with you. He will probably be hurting inside but you have to do what is best for you and he will get over it. Everything is going to be fine:)

Answer 9

reject him forever

Answer 10

If your female tell him how you feel.If your a male-----RUN.