This hurt me, what do i do, 10 points!!!!?

Question

i like this girl. we became close friends, but she has a b/f, but i like her so much. anyway, i was dealing with the friend zone till i found out she deleted me from msn. she likes the way i follow her around and do things for her, but the msn thing shows shes just using me. shes in my class, and she expects me to hang out. what do i do?

it hurt cuz not only does she not love me, she doesn not like me at all.

Answer 1

d**n that sux... well just let her know ur not a puppet she can use and that if ever she plans on taking u seriously to call u

Answer 2

well thats sad and i think you should try to tell her your feelings and tell her you do not want to be used and if she only wants to use you you an find someone that will like you and not use you.  

Answer 3

It's hard to do this when you have such strong feelings for someone. They can overwhelm you at times, I know.

But people like that don't deserve your time of day. Why put so much effort into someone who won't even show you her appreciation. You've already proven yourself to be a genuinly classy guy, who goes out of his way to make the girl he cares for feel like a queen, so why not wait for the girl that'll let you be her King. I know that sounds corny, but as a human bud, you're better. She is lower then you. Even though she makes you feel it's the other way.

The sooner you can say, "yeah, she's a troll, and doesn't deserve my time of day" the better off you'll be.

I'd cut ties with her in a big way.

Good luck, and don't let your feelings keep you down, it'll get better, and the future you will be happy you did it... so will the future Mrs.You!

haha, Take care!

Answer 4

You should ask this to her. Just casually ask, "Did you delete me from MSN? Because I didn't find you online for a while." This question is quite discrete and for 99% of the time won't reveal any love intentions beneath it. Good luck!

Answer 5

Aww, well she just likes you to follow her around so that she looks good, if you still like her and want to be her friend talk to her, and then say how come your never on msn or why did you delete me she might say it was an accident or something but if she treats you badly and uses you I would stop letting her. x

Answer 6

get a girlfriend and make her jealous  

Answer 7

I don't do MSN, so I don't know if you get a warning every time someone deletes you or something.  Having said that, if you feel she is using you then stop getting used ;- )  Simple, huh?  There's no reason to do anything you don't want to do, if you enjoy doing things for her, then do them, if you feel like her own personal Kleenex then I suggest finding someone that can and will respond to you and bestowing your company on that lucky girl.

Answer 8

Start Ignoring Her And Start Hanging With Ur Other Homiez

She'll Start Gettin A Lil' Suspicious And Then She'll Come 2 U Again  

Answer 9

move on

Answer 10

i would say don't bother with her anymore she is obviously using you and you don't deserve that. try to avoid her as much as you can.. and as far as going out with i wouldn't do it unless yall maybe just go to lunch and you confront her about how you feel and what's going on. tell her what you think and how you think she's using you ask her why she deleted you and maybe you can get answers. but from what i can see she doesn't seem like the right person for you. cheer up boo there's more girls out there and im sure you'll find her soon. good luck!!

Answer 11

dear friend.... i know how it feels. i would say, just ignore her and try to fall in love with some other girl. after this friend of yours realizes that you are ignoring her, she herself will start talking to you and try to hang around with you, from the bottom of my heart i beg you to ignore her. don't belittle yourself doing things for her when you already know that you mean nothing to her.just chuck her off your life. she's not worth it man!!

Answer 12

EW dont let this girl boss you around and dont let her use you, stop doing things for Her**, she will realize what shes missing out on fersure. I know this because it happend to me i didnt realize what i had til it was gone, and after i gave the guy a chance BUT its totally up to you if she does want a chance after though, If i was a guy i wouldnt of a gave any girl a chance that used me like that especially with a bf. BUT since you really like her you might wanna. Hope this helps (:

Answer 13

you said it yourself she is just using you. Find another girl that interests you and do what you did with this girl. If the girl that was using you had any feelings for you she will get jealous and want you back. But my advice is dont get to hung up on one girl. Your young, have fun and enjoy life. Before you know it you will be married and with only one woman the rest of your life.

Answer 14

Girls like this just enjoy playing dumb, immature games. You can do better than her. Ignore her.

Answer 15

It sucks to be able to hang out with the girl you like, but know she doesn't like you.  It's even worse when she uses you because she knows you like her.  It's a hard thing to do at a young age, but you need to look at the facts and realize that it might be better if you stop getting used.  You can still talk to her and like her, but you don't have to feel worse than you have to.  Just like her as much as you want, but don't feel like you have to put on a show for her.  Be a human being and be yourself.  It's a crazy life and you don't have to go through this ****.  There's more stuff to deal with.  Better stuff to deal with.  This is nothing compared to your potential.  Yep  

Answer 16

shes a s**t so stay away from her your better offf.

she is craving attention from u and other people.

she wants pple to see that she has you around her little finger.

bye!

Answer 17

you don't need her c**p

Answer 18

Forget about her and ignore her for a couple of weeks and pretend like you don't know her, she'll come crawling back!

Answer 19

Find a new gurl that appreicates you...and one who dosen't have a b/f would help.

Answer 20

Hey bro,it is gonna hurt, really it will. But you have to shut off all contact. She is treating you like dirt. And you dont deserve that. Trust me you will find someone one day who treats you perfect! :)

Answer 21

Never attach you're self before they are attached to you. This is happen to me many many time, nothing you can really do is either talk to her about it and ask her ho you can fix it, you live and let live and forget it, love's out their and if she is not for you then she isn't. Move on and I'll bet you will find someone else very soon.