This hurts so bad...what should I do?

Question

My parents had been fighting a lot and they stopped for a while and I moved to another city but i came home this weekend and my parents started fighting again and tonight my dad hit my mom really hard! I have to go back to my house in another city and I dont want to leave my mom at home alone with my dad but I have to so what should I do?

Answer 1

talk with your mom in private, let her know how this makes you feel, then ask her if she thinks she should get some kind of help and get away from your father no one should have to take abuse

Answer 2

.,tell your mom that she and your dad needs a space..

.,ask her to go with you and leave your dad for a while..

.,so your parents will have peace on their mind,.

.,and if you think that everything's going back to normal,

.,then send your mom back to your dad..

Answer 3

Talk to your Mom about getting out and talk to your Dad separately about how you feel about them fighting and how hitting your Mom is never okay.

Answer 4

Ask your mom to come with you.

Answer 5

first of all you can tell your mother how you feel, but if she's not willing to leave then you are wasting your time,  I mean really let her know that she doesnt have to take that kind of abuse from noone,  and talk to your dad also, ask him if someone was to beat on you what would he do.  really let him have it and let him know that you will not put up with it, no matter what.

Answer 6

im sorry just get your mom and get out of there ok like now?

Answer 7

If you have a adult family member you trust, I suggest you give them a call. If you don't maybe a counslor or pastor you trust or know.

The bottom line is this (and I don't think you'll like it) you can do nothing for your parents but love them. They are adults and they have to make their own choices on how they live their lives, as long as YOU aren't being hurt (hit) you are not in control.

You can look up info on the net about spousal abuse and bring it to your mother and see if she may want help, if she doesn't, you can't do anything about. You just need to take care of you.

I know this sounds harsh and mean, but you don't have control over this, they do.

something to remember...there are only 2 days of the week YOU don't have control over, yesterday (it's already past) and tomorrow (it's not promised to us), today is the only day you have control over and what YOU chose to do with it

God bless

Answer 8

hm,

take your mom with you or tell somebody who can do something about it like cops .. but make it confidential so that he wont find out and hit her again  

Answer 9

You can call the police and have him arrested because it is against the law to beat up your wife.

Ask your mom to come home with you.  Tell your mom to tell your dad that she is not coming back until he gets help for his temper because he will not hurt her anymore.

I wish your mother well    

Answer 10

what you can do is either tell her that you are worried in leaving her alone with your father or do what the person below told you to do.

Answer 11

Sit your mom down and have a talk with her.Has this happened before .Have they always had a this kinda relationship .If you are fearful for your mom you must take her with you.a lot of women  don't know how to leave .So helping her may be her only way out right now.

Answer 12

Domestic violence is against the law.  Call the cops right now.  Your mother does not deserve to be treated that way.  

Answer 13

well if you dad is hitting your mom she needs to get out offer her a place to stay tell her to file for divorce if he does it once he will do it again if they are not getting along it is better to end it then stay

Answer 14

Your mom needs to leave your dad. He should not be hitting her at all. Is there any place that your mom can stay at like another family member or at your place. You can call the police and get some help that way. Your mom needs to be safe it can get worse so just think about it