This is a bit confusing. ?

Question

Why is it that if a guy admits he likes thin women, he is called shallow and brainwashed by the media, but if he says he likes big women he is praised ESPEICALLY if he starts saying "skinny women are nasty I want a real woman" or "I don't wanna have s*x with a pile of bones". How is that okay? I'm fine if you like curvy girls, but do you have to put that stuff making fun of the thin women? What would society do if a man said "I like thin women...I hate all that blubber and fat!" He would be called a shallow a.hole, right? Right.

So why do you assume skinny women don't have feelings and insecurites?

OH, and women who constantly bash skinny women by saying "I'm proud of my curves! I don't wanna be a digsusting, sick, unhealthy, nasty pile of bones!". I have no problem if you're proud of your curves..good for you. But why do you have to put us down? What are you trying to do? Are you really NOT proud and just trying to make yourselves feel better?(This is for the women that DO that..not all curvy women =]) .

Answer 1

Because people think they have to be attracted by looks first.  If we all, yes all meaning both sexes, took the time to actually KNOW other people for who they are instead of for what they look like, the world would be a much better place.

Answer 2

I know exactly what you mean. It's a double standard; thinness is praised, yet at the same time, people are chastised for being skinny. I am skinny, and everyone looks at me like I have an eating disorder. One of my best friends constantly puts me down and says that I look so unhealthy, and acts like she is supremely proud of her chunk. It doesn't make much sense since models are usually held as the standard of beauty. I guess that tells us everyone has their own opinions and that society is hypocritical. Surprise much?

Answer 3

haha i totally agree as a skinny girl they always bash us which means they r insecure even tho they say there proud ahah

Answer 4

one word most are "jealous"

Answer 5

wow lol a woman is a woman and im not a man so idk

Answer 6

No. I used to be fat until i dropped 120 pounds. When your fat, those hurtful comments are multiplied by a thousand. you guys have it on the easy side. Also, its not jealously. It has been proven that most men prefer curvy over skinny any day. I am sorry you get these comments but imagine how it is for the really curvy women? be happy with your body and stop complaining. it makes you look like the really shallow a**hole.