This is a hard one but I would like to see what you would say......Pyscho or not??

Question

Omg not even sure where to start......

Split up with this guy (known him for a year dated 3 months)

since then he has been harassing me and telling me hes going to kill himself he rings and harrasses my friends and threatens to beat them up, he tells lies and stories about me and has threated me one minute then the next he says he loves me and wants me back then itrs back to the threats ...saying hes going to smash the house windows and he tells my parents I`m on drugs......

I have talked to him and told him i want to be civil but hes not getting it into his head. I have told him to move on but he just seems to be getting worse.

(I split up with him because he is a liar and he was possesive- He lied about his father being in hospital and he lied about his friend dying and other things)

I have since changed my number.

I`m fed up and I`m not sure what to do.

So far he hasnt carried out any of his threats but will he? should i get the police involved? (Baring in mind i have no actual proof)

This really does suck...

Please give me some help.... I`m not sure what to do!

Answer 1

i think the best thing u can do is keep a record of text messages and phone calls. note down the things hes said and the time and date. that way if anything was to happen you have this as some sort of proof.



I think he has some big problems in his life to be lieing about things like that however it seems that if he hasnt done anything hes said he would then that wont change any time soon. my dad done that to my mum when they split and he didnt do it ever. its all mouth to dag u back into a relationship.

Guilt tripping you back into it so dont listen and try your best to egnore him as its not fair on u

Answer 2

most police have learned that in situtions like this intervention is better than cleaning up a murder so call them and ask for a court order to restrain him from getting within 100 feet of you

Answer 3

PSYCHO!

all day and night

you need to skip town he is crazy

Answer 4

Yes very psycho

You should have a restraing order put on him and your Friends should as well

Answer 5

well it sounds you were correct in breaking up. this guy needs medical attention! yes call the police, file a restraining order,get your friends and family involved, move from the area whatever it takes. if all that fails, sneak up on him in the dark, have you and your friends threaten him and tell him you wont be a victim of his hunt any more that he will be the hunted instead! sometimes you need to show crazy people you are crazier than they are and that you mean it!!!

Answer 6

Make a police report so all of your statments of what he has said is logged.He is mentally ill he could very well hurt you or worse.