This is a marriage question,please answer,please don't lecture.?

Question

Let's say that your husband looks like a celebrity.If your husband asked you would you had still married him if he didn't look like someone famous,is this a good answer?It's long but he's a good listener.

It depends because what you might find ugly,I might find beautiful.I married you for more than just your looks.I still feel that you have to have some sort of physical attraction to a person to make things work.So as long as I was still attracted to you and love you then yes,I would had married you.You don't have to look like someone famous for me to had married you.Let's face it,you're not going to look like this forever,I'm not going to look like this forever.If the lead singer of my favorite childhood band had blue eyes and blonde hair and I thought it was hot then seeing you with blue eyes and blonde hair is hot too.But to be honest,even if you had brown eyes and black hair,you'd still be hot.Like I said I had other boyfriends before we got married that didn't look anything like a celebrity but they were fairly good looking and I still dated them.But the reason why they're my exs is because they didn't have the personality that I was looking for.You had looks and personality.

Would he be mad if he heard this answer?Would he want a divorce or something?

One more thing.If you would have married a person despite the fact that they had really really long hair or a wrinkle here and there,does that mean that you didn't marry them because they look like someone famous and that you married them for more than just their looks.

His looks are one reason of why you married him but it's not the only reason.

There was this band that I used to like and he looks like the lead singer.Shouldn't it be a compliment that he looks like someone that I used to be a fan of?Isn't his looks part of who he is even though he looks like someone else?

Does it get the point out?Does it sound good.It's honest.

Answer 1

tell him I love you for you and I always will tell him people age all the time but the heart always beats strong.  Its the chemistry that attracts people to each other looks help but that's not the whole picture  

Answer 2

I would be very flattered to get that answer from my wife. It is both realistic and romantic. You realise obviously that we all change as we get older, although we do not realise it at the time. Surely he is not the person you think he is if he would want a divorce?

Good luck

Answer 3

I would not tell him that one of the reason you married him was because he looked like someone else.  That would make him feel that since you couldn't have the other person, you settled on him, someone that looks like the other guy.  I think that would be a definite no no.

You are right that you don't marry a person just for their looks.  If you do, you will be very disappointed in a few years.  

Good luck!

Answer 4

I like the answer and it's true you don't necessarily marry someone because they look nice. it's a plus if they do. But for me i like SMART. but the guy who i married was'nt that smart lol, but it was other reasons that I married him. He was sincere at the beginning. but yeah it's always more than one reason why you marry a person I think that is a great answer! kudos! I don't think he will be mad or want a divorce becaus there's really no reason to be mad, a honest question desserve and honest answer.

Answer 5

just tell him the truth. if he cant handle the truth, then you are very sorry but at least you were honest with him and dosent he want you to be honest about your feelings? thats a better ingredient for a marriage than good looks and desirability.

so if thats how you feel, say it. i doubt he will ask for a divorce, and if he does, he has deeper issues than you can deal with honey.

Answer 6

It sounds like you're not even sure what you think.

It sounds a lot like "I'm gonna give you the runaround because I married you for your looks but I don't want to offend you".

Oh, just a tip...never tell a guy he's hot, and then mention another guy who he looks like...because its a lot like saying "I think you're hot, but I ALSO THINK  john doe is hot.

Answer 7

well i think that u  probably shouldnt bring up ur ex's or that he looks like ur fav. lead singer, just tell him that u like him for who he is, inside and out. and that his looks arent half as important to than his looks (assuming that u would marry him if he didnt look like he does)

good luck(: