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Question

I am a married man , I have picked up a girl just for chating a\. My wife has seen her in my car. She is very musch angry and held a sky on her head. What should I do. I declare that I am a muslim and national of a south asian country.

Answer 1

Grow up and quit cheating on your wife.  Islam is supposed to be so almighty.  Start acting like it is and STOP CHEATING, cause that is what you are doing.  If I were your wife, God forbid, I'd knock you into the middle of next week and you would be picking your teeth out of your @$$

Answer 2

Beg you wife for forgiveness, tell her that you don't know what you were thinking but it will never happen again.  And then make sure that it never happens again.

Answer 3

i think its haram 2 talk or be friends with the opposie gender

just explain 2 ur wife what happend

Answer 4

firstly ! does your wife have reason to doubt you ? have you given her a reason and if so u need to fix this and inorder to that you need to do some sole searching ask yourself do u want this marrige ? if yes you need to do some changes to prove tpo your wife you are changing a marrige is based on commitment and cmmunication when last did you wine and dine your wife she is surpose to be the held on a gold platter and your princess right / did you make her feel this way , i dont care if you chattered with that girl you guikly ? why could you not chat with your wife ? she is the pillar in your house and you her pillar you not giving anything to rely on ,work at it and good luck  

Answer 5

you need to really be apologetic and mean it and never do this again. Avid getting in this situation again..you CAN avoid be  true to her.Don't be surprise if things change it could take time for her to trust you again and again maybe she might not ever trust you again.....good luck

Answer 6

you have to understand that this must have looked terrible to your wife...let her calm down a little and explain to her what was going on, and that you were just talking.  

Answer 7

Tell her the truth and swear by Allah that you never meant to harm her or anibody

Answer 8

I declare that you flee back to your home land with your new girlfirend and never return to this nation!

Answer 9

It is improper to have this girl in your car, and your wife has a right to be upset.  Introduce your wife to this girl and maybe all three of you can become friends, then your wife would know her, too.  It is better to chat with your wife.

Answer 10

You should first be honest with yourself and realize that "just for chatting" is not true. You are seeking to make a connection with this person at an emotional level that is missing from your life. Find out what is it that you were looking for and explain to your wife how you can both be stronger as a couple if she helps you get what you are looking for. If she can't or is unable to, find an activity with other couples that agree on your point of view. Often, we tend to hear and accept other's views before easier than the views of the people we know best and love more.

Answer 11

DUDE if u r going out with other woman no matter the circumstance u CANT b dat happy or u jus dnt luv ur wife cuz den u wldn't wanna hurt her...U need 2 re-evaluate your relationship...

Answer 12

If you are married and love you wife unconditionally then it is easy you know what to do...

best of luck

Some Guy...

Answer 13

my friend, truth is the best medicine when the evidence is overwhelming

Answer 14

well my dad recently cheated on my mom. my mom got mad and divorced him. so you better watch out. if you want her back you better do everything you can. and i mean EVERYTHING. get down on ur knees and beg.