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This is a mental question,I edited it again.?

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This is a strange question and I'm not married and I don't have kids but here it goes.

You are married and you have a baby.You m********e and you have a sexual thought about your child.You don't want your child sexually because that's just disgusting.It just popped in your mind.You're not going to bother your child sexually.This thought really scared you and you hated the thought.You didn't even want to have the thought.Is this a thought that the devil brings to you?Everyone has bad thoughts but as long as we don't yeild to them then we're not bad people,right?Would your husband divorce you for having the thought?

And is this how you know that you don't want to have s*x with your child?

You love your child just not sexually.

You don't want to hurt your child.

It's wrong.

You don't want a divorce from your husband.

You don't want to go to jail.

I'm just asking.I'm not married and I don't have kids but I just want to know.It's just a thought.I know you all are saying "This is sick and disgusting!".I agree but it's a thought not an action.There are some people who are strong enough to not act on the thought and stop thinking about it.Everyone who has answered this question has once in their life had bad thoughts but as long as we don't act on them,we have not sinned,right?So would a husband divorce the wife even though she didn't and diesn't intend on acting on the thought?

Nobody is understanding this question.If you are not going to act on the thought and hated the thought then therefore,you do not want to hurt the child.Why would your spouse divorce you over just having the thought when you have no intentions to hurt the child?Isn't this something that you can work out if you love each other?I also think that I might have OCD.I have a lot of symptoms of OCD such as doing things repititively,bad thoughts and images,being afriad of being contaminated,checking things over and over again,having really bad uncontrlollable bad thoughts about anything and everything,things I wouldn't even act on.I have more symptoms.I'm not saying this is me but what if you are so tortured by the thoughts that you are about to commit suicide because you think that the child will be better off without you.You do not want to hurt the child.It was just a thought that you don't intend to have again.You're not going to act on it either so why should a husband divorce his wife over that?Would you divorce your wife because of all of this?

You're not sexually attracted to your child.It was just a thought,not an action or an intended action.Everyone has bad thoughts at least once in their life!How can this be a cause for a divorce?!?!?Is this a cause for a divorce or something?

While you were masturbating,you also thought about your son masturbating when he gets older and that turned you on.I thought any sexual image can turn a person on.You didn't want it to turn you on.It was like a fantasy!You stopped masturbating because of all of this.You didn't want the thoughts anymore so you just quit it completely.You are not tortured by the thoughts but you are tortured by the thought that you had them.You try to block them out!You have no intention to touch the child.You know that it's wrong and think that people who do it are sick.Would a husband divorce his wife or get her help?Which would you do?

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  1. hmmm...well, i understand what you are asking here because you are right everyone has thoughts...wrong or right.

    Whether or not it is grounds for divorce is really just the individuals involved.  I don't personally think it is unless, well, it happens all the time really..but if that is the case then I would think there was something wrong and maybe would need to see someone to figure this out.  

    You are right, when someone takes marriage vows it is through good and bad and if they really loved each other they should try to work through it together, but as I said it is really up to the individuals involved.


  2. wow, what a massive question. i got half way & figured what u are saying.

    chill, , yeah its the "devil" indirectly putting it thru, but it happens to everyone. u were just honest to put it on record.

    remember the episode from FRIENDS where chandler puts a thought into ross's head that his mother suddenly popped into his mind while he was having s*x.and later on,'cos chandler said it, ross's mom pops into his mind before he goes to bed with rachel.

    the episode is titled "the one with the princess leia fantasy.

    so its all good, u are normal!

  3. Wow, I got half way through your book and decided to wait for the movie.  

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