This is a mental question,I edited it.?

Question

This is a strange question and I'm not married and I don't have kids but here it goes.

You are married and you have a baby.You m********e and you have a sexual thought about your child.You don't want your child sexually because that's just disgusting.It just popped in your mind.You're not going to bother your child sexually.This thought really scared you and you hated the thought.You didn't even want to have the thought.Is this a thought that the devil brings to you?Everyone has bad thoughts but as long as we don't yeild to them then we're not bad people,right?Would your husband divorce you for having the thought?

And is this how you know that you don't want to have s*x with your child?

You love your child just not sexually.

You don't want to hurt your child.

It's wrong.

You don't want a divorce from your husband.

You don't want to go to jail.

I'm just asking.I'm not married and I don't have kids but I just want to know.It's just a thought.I know you all are saying "This is sick and disgusting!".I agree but it's a thought not an action.There are some people who are strong enough to not act on the thought and stop thinking about it.Everyone who has answered this question has once in their life had bad thoughts but as long as we don't act on them,we have not sinned,right?So would a husband divorce the wife even though she didn't and diesn't intend on acting on the thought?

Nobody is understanding this question.If you are not going to act on the thought and hated the thought then therefore,you do not want to hurt the child.Why would your spouse divorce you over just having the thought when you have no intentions to hurt the child?Isn't this something that you can work out if you love each other?

You're not sexually attracted to your child.It was just a thought,not an action or an intended action.Everyone has bad thoughts at least once in their life!How can this be a cause for a divorce?!?!?Is this a cause for a divorce or something?

While you were masturbating,you also thought about your son masturbating when he gets older and that turned you on.I thought any sexual image can turn a person on.You didn't want it to turn you on.It was like a fantasy!You stopped masturbating because of all of this.You didn't want the thoughts anymore so you just quit it completely.You are not tortured by the thoughts but you are tortured by the thought that you had them.You try to block them out!You have no intention to touch the child.You know that it's wrong and think that people who do it are sick.Would a husband divorce his wife or get her help?Which would you do?

Answer 1

The person should see a therapist since that could indicate s/he was sexually abused as a child and doesn't really remember or that s/he has some fantasies that could get out of hand and harm the child at some point in the future.  In any event, the thoughts are disturbing enough to the person to get help on understanding them and moving away from them.

Answer 2

the person should seek help immediately because things like this just wouldn't go away if it has happened more than once during masturbation

Answer 3

i think its just a THOUGHT , if the person has no intention on doing that i can`t see the harm in that. if the person knows that tis is wrong and she is able to keep off her mind from that, no bad is done.

you are right lots of people, i mean EVERYBODY had or will have at a point in their life a bad thougt and if the person knows that is wrong and the thought remains JUST a thought again i see no harm.

i don`t think the wife should even tell the husband because everyone has these thoughts, maybe even the husband but he won`t admit it , and if the husband find out somehow or the wife tells him, i can`t see why they can`t just forget about it even if its a little hard and the man will not be able to look at his wife with the same eyes during a period, i think it will be ok. it depends a lot on the personality of the husband too...

Answer 4

Sounds like you know too much about your parents....

Answer 5

it could be OCD which is instrusive thoughts.

i dont know what i would do.  i would want to risk my child being in that situation. perhaps have him move out and live separateldy until things are resolved or at least understood. def. note everything he says for court reasons involving custody

EDIT:  someone would divorce because it's hard to believe that someone is having sexual thoughts about a child and masturbating thinking about a child, but wouldnt actually have s*x w/ a child. who would take that risk???? basically:  IT'S DISTURBING AND CREEPY

Answer 6

The only "mental question" here is:

   Why are you not in therapy or institutionalized?

Answer 7

you guys don't get the question.

or you guys are just too uncomfortable with the thought. lighten up, its just a question that someone wants to vocalize. she doesn't "need therapy". she is a human being who has a question.

so stop thinking you're more normal just cause you can't vocalize a thought.