This is a mental question.?

Question

This is a strange question and I'm not married and I don't have kids but here it goes.

You are married and you have a baby.You m********e and you have a sexual thought about your child.You don't want your child sexually because that's just disgusting.It just popped in your mind.You're not going to bother your child sexually.This thought really scared you and you hated the thought.You didn't even want to have the thought.Is this a thought that the devil brings to you?Everyone has bad thoughts but as long as we don't yeild to them then we're not bad people,right?Would your husband divorce you for having the thought?

And is this how you know that you don't want to have s*x with your child?

You love your child just not sexually.

You don't want to hurt your child.

It's wrong.

You don't want a divorce from your husband.

You don't want to go to jail.

I'm just asking.I'm not married and I don't have kids but I just want to know.It's just a thought.I know you all are saying "This is sick and disgusting!".I agree but it's a thought not an action.There are some people who are strong enough to not act on the thought and stop thinking about it.Everyone who has answered this question has once in their life had bad thoughts but as long as we don't act on them,we have not sinned,right?So would a husband divorce the wife even though she didn't and diesn't intend on acting on the thought?

Nobody is understanding this question.If you are not going to act on the thought and hated the thought then therefore,you do not want to hurt the child.Why would your spouse divorce you over just having the thought when you have no intentions to hurt the child?Isn't this something that you can work out if you love each other?

Answer 1

really it would depend on the husband when it comes to divorce, like depending on the person you can't really set a basic answer, because everybody thinks differently. And honestly how would the husband know this to divorce her if she didn't tell him/she didn't act on it, that is just illogical.

Anyways people consider it a disgusting thought, but honestly we are all human here, and i know it may seem gross but everybody's thought of someone like that, in that way, while masturbating, idk it's kind of hard to explain on a computer

Answer 2

No the thought is a subconscious desire and could lead to acting on it and needs to be dealt with promptly the act it self is not the ? the concern is it was there.

Answer 3

no, not really. if it happens once, then it's just a random thing. i kinda know what you are trying to say, because i've been having strong sexual urges for my sister, but so far i have managed to stave them off. i think the thought of incest, as taboo as it is, is more of a turn on than anything else in this world, well, at least for me it is. just as long as you don't ACTUALLY carry out said actions, you should be fine. um.. as for the latter part of hubby divorcing wifey over these thoughts, i would say that it is something that's workable, but in the back of your mind, you are always going to wonder what it would be like just for a second. i hope this was able to help you.