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Question

im the oldest of 4 kids and my mom now has the tendency to call me sunday and started cussing and raising her voice at me for no reason and she blames me for eveything that my sister said and the stuff is not true so she our dad the same day and went back and told our mom stuff that they said but she that i said it but i didnt soi want to know what should i do sorry if it doesnt make too much sense im trying to calm my baby down

Answer 1

Just hang up on your mom  when she does that to you and talk to everyone and tell the truth then if they don't believe you that's their problem.

Answer 2

no that didn't make sense to me

Answer 3

If anybody called my phone and disrespected me, I would hang up.  If they call back yelling, hang up, they will learn that you will not be talked to like that or you will not listen.

Answer 4

take a deep breath, calm down your baby and then take a few days to yourself.

if sounds really super confusing but it also sounds like a gossip game gone wrong. call everyone involved to a meeting in person with your mother and get it worked out. someone is starting drama and it's not very mature. maybe be time to cut ties with some people for a little bit because you have a child to raise and the baby doesn't need to grow up in conflict.

i hope it doesn't come down to that! but try to communicate first and always give it time.

i am so sorry!!! :(

Answer 5

your right it doesn't make much sense.

get off the computer if you are so upset, then put your baby to bed and when you have calmed down try again later.

get your priorities in the right order!!!

Answer 6

Well, sounds like you are just venting, luv.  And it's okay to do that, too.  I don't see a question posted here, but I will give you some advice:

I KNOW that's your mother and all, but (are you over 18?) no one deserves a royal cussing out...even from Mother.  Tell her that you refuse to be spoken to in that manner, and that you will speak to her when she calms down.

Answer 7

You know what you have to be brave go up to your mom and say mom I'm sick and tired of you always thinking I'm the bad son which I'm not and I want you to treat me with more respect Why don't you ever yell at anyone else but me it's like just because I'm older does not mean you have to treat me like dirt I'm always going to be the first to be an adult I'm doing all I can and your just discouraging me and I don't like it a bit because I mean if I did not do anything at all why should I be punished for it and say it straight to her face! Please pick me for best answer please pretty please

Answer 8

let things calm down first, then in a few days or tomorrow talk to your parents.

Answer 9

Oh boy, you have some wicked family drama going on!

If I am reading your question correctly, you are a mother of a small child and you are upset and your baby is reading your signals and becoming upset as well.

Tell your family that you love them very much but that for the sake of your child you cannot be drug into the family drama. You have to be a mom before anything else right now.