This is a relationship question...or maybe a concern?

Question

my boyfriend and i were hanging out...then i playfully put a stinky hat in front of his face...he immediately as i guess a reflex hit the h**l out of my arm. i got soo scared it made me shake and cry.. he quickly apolgized. was this a accidnet? is this a sign he is abusive? or am i over reacting?

Answer 1

youre over reacting. that doesn't mean  hes abusive, but if he hit you that hard to make you cry then maybe he is. Its your fault for putting that hat in front of him

Answer 2

You are WAY overreacting! You stuck something gross in front of his face, and as a way to get it away, he swatted at you. He probably didn't even mean to hit you, he was probably aiming for the hat and hit you as an accident.