This is crazy,,, somethings definetly wrong with me?

Question

so my bf and me have never had s*x and i dont think we can

he fingered me before, it was intensely painful because im a virgin. he broke it about 1/3 of the way, i was bleeding afterward for a little over 2 weeks. it wasnt my period. it wasn't heavy, but it was still really annoying. after that we got kind of scared because he only had gone in 2 inches and wer were surprised that it bled so much. so we waited a couple of months before fingering again. the second time i bled as well but only a few days. a couple weeks later we tried it again and used tons of ky, went super slow and tried to get the angle right. he went in about 3 inches. Only this time i didn't bleed!!!! so im thinking im getting used to this.

so my questions are, is it normal to bleed that much when you break it (even though i didn't break it all the way?)

how far can my bf go in? (ive heard its 4 inches at most)

do you think that i should keep doing it gradually, or just let him go all the way?

and how big does the hole end up being once you do break it all the way (try to be mature).

thanks

Answer 1

That blood is from you hymen breaking. It's totally normal. It doesn't matter how far in he goes, if anything is in there at ALL, its going to break your hymen because the hymen is on the OUTSIDE of the opening. You've quit bleeding because  your hymen is completely gone now. You're fine, no worries.

Answer 2

The amount of bleeding you had was unusual but now that it's done with, nothing to worry about... usually, the bleeding of a torn hymen (other than whatever bleeding happened during intercourse and over the next few hours) will be no more than 2 or 3 days of spotting.

Your bf can go in as far as your comfort level will allow... the whole length of his p***s can fit in there if he's not abnormally huge.

Doing it gradually may be more comfortable for you, but it will take longer (more times, I mean) before you to get much pleasure out of penetration.   Let your own comfort be your guide.   If he's already been 3 inches in and it's not too uncomfortable, there might not be much (or even *any*) further stretching to be done.

The "hole" ends up being a little bigger than the thing that went in there (or the same size, if what went in doesn't move at all once it's in).   They're big enough for babies to come out of, remember?  :-)