This is driving me crazy!?

Question

My friend[May] is fighting with my friend[Shyla].

Im stuck in the middle!

So of course, I couldn't take sides.

But when I started hanging out with Shyla, May got totally pissed off!

This what she posted about us[it dosen't name people though]

"don't you just HATE it when you FIGHT with someone.. then they tell someone else.. then THOSE TWO PEOPLE TURN THEIR BACK ON YOU AND TAKE THE PERSON THAT YOU HATE! "

Now May's mad at me! I have no idea what to do!

Please help!

Thanks!

x--Angel--x

Answer 1

sounds like all three of you need to grow up

Answer 2

you shouldn't have hung out with shyla, cause you would've , known what may's reaction, would be, you gotta think first before doing anything

you can try not hanging out with either of them, and explain to may

what your just trying to do, try to fix the mess, you could talk to shyla and ask her why she's mad at may, and talk to may too, and ask her

why she's mad at shyla, then get them to apologies to each other

and also say sorry to both of them, so that they won't look at you

as a goodie goodie two shoes, tell them that you treasure your friendship

Answer 3

first of all y did u let them fight.. u should have stopped them... and if u were not there in between the fight later u should have compromised on the fight. u did not do that and thats what created all this mess..

now what u can do is get both of ur friends together and force a compromise on them.. do whatever u can or blackmail them at the risk of ur friendship.. ok and fix the issue..

or else there is no way out to this mess...

i hope i helped..

Answer 4

This is a great scenario to act as a mediator. Bring them both together and ask them to settle their fight while you look on, only giving advice when asked.

If they refuse to hang out with eachother say "This fight is making it hard for me to be friends with you."

Answer 5

just talk to both and say i'm not getting in the middle it's between you two i'm not taking side so sort it out  

Answer 6

Lot of answers.No matter this is a conundrum and a lose lose situation

but do try to work things out. Good luck with that.