This is for unmarried indian girls. would you like your husband to make love on first night?

Question

I am about to marry soon. I am curious to know if a girl would like the idea of having s*x on first night? I am not too hungry for s*x so I can wait for couple of days until my lovely wife is ready for it. Girls please advise. Genuine answers only please. Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Nitin, instead of asking us ask yourself what you want. And then talk to her about it. The girl is gonna be your wife for god sake. If not before marriage then when else are you gonna talk all these silly dirty stuff. If she is scared of the idea of having s*x for the first time, then you need to reassure her and make her comfortable. First night need not always mean penetration. Non penetrative s*x can also be as sweet as anything else if done nicely. Especially if she is a virgin and scared of "the first time".

If your marriage is near then you should start talking to her about s*x. A lot. That will help her have an idea what you want from her and what she will have to expect from you also it will help you understand what she expects and what she doesn't. That in turn will help her get rid of most of her nervousness and mentally prepare her for the first night.

Answer 2

girls have different opinions. some girls are scare, some are very much interest to know and have s*x. so you talk to her first and know her mood then act as her wish.

Answer 3

You will need to ask her.

Everyone is different.

On the wedding night couples are often EXHAUSTED from the days event, but feel pressured to have s*x as it is "tradition".

Just go with the flow and be open to her needs.  

Answer 4

yeah defo lol :)

Answer 5

um well....if it was an arranged marriage I wouldnt be too thrilled about the idea, but if I really loved my husband then I guess.....

Answer 6

i dnt knw about her, i think u both need 2 take a time 2 understand each others feeling 1st. when i got married we took about 7 months to get 2 know each others then we made love. in this modern world we all r educated now. just make a good relationship first then go 4 s*x. b4 u hav great s*x u need a love nd gud understanding. im sure she will appriciate it.

congratulations nd gud luck  

Answer 7

yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

every girl would want to else she might think you are not a man enough to do it, but you have to be sensitive to her needs.  

Answer 8

well not really for me... i mean i would expect my husband to show that he supports me... but show signs that its not that you dont want it some day but you understand that she needs time to adjust in this new atmosphere and you wish to give your support..  

Answer 9

Oh yesh!

Answer 10

hey talk wid her. see girls are very much dedicated to their relation first make her comfortable as a friend then try to be her husband