This is how he got raped?

Question

For those of you who are wondering how my boyfriend Justin got raped this is how it happened....He got off the bus and was walking home the girl bonequisha use to always try and talk to him but he told her like a thousand times he already has a girl friend then that horrible day Bonequisha and her two brothers and her other friend dragged Justin in a honda accord,took him to her house,handcuffed him to the bed, and raped him. He decided to drop the charges because bonequisha brother Tyson is in a gang and thratened him. So he had no choice the next he told me i was shocked but didn't like that fat bleep either so like i said before i gave her an old fashion beat down like she deserved this happened like almost a month ago and he won't sleep with me anymore and im was just wondering what should i do

Answer 1

wow

Answer 2

I've never heard of a guy getting raped, but I guess it can happen.  

Answer 3

Did her bros rape him? If so kil l the ba s atr ds!!! If SHE raped him guess what?  HE HAD TO HAVE AN ERECTION TO GET RAPED THAT MEANS HE WANTED HER!!!Either way this guy is screwed up.

Answer 4

Yeah sure he got raped. isn't what they all say lol.

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Answer 5

Call the cops.  

Answer 6

leave him and move on, he's damaged goods.

Answer 7

His issues with not sleeping with you anymore, I'm sure, has little to do with you if anything at all.  This man of yours has been through a very traumatic experience and it is going to take some time to heal his emotional and trauma wounds.  His life has just taken a big turn and all forms of s*x may make him ill right now.  As for what you should do.  Support him in any manner you can.  Give him time to recover from this.  Emotional scars like those from rape run deep and last a very long time if he does not take it to a rape counselor.  Also, since you have just posted this information on a world wide forum, you may want to take extra precaution on your own and watch all around you.  I am afraid for your safety and his.  You have given her an "old fashion beat down".  If I were you, I would find a relative in another state and go visit for a while.  You are in danger, I hope you realize that...take care of yourself and your man.  He is lucky to have someone that cares about you, but in order to help him heal, you have to be understanding.

Answer 8

you should do make him feel safe  

Answer 9

Change your name to Bonequisha, because he probably liked it.

Answer 10

please dont break up with him. he needs you

Answer 11

I'm really sorry to hear that happend. hes most likely having some deep emotional issues right now. look what hes been through. give him time.

Answer 12

Find out why he won't sleep with you. Was it cuz he was raped? Or cuz he isn't interested in dating you anymore? Then figure out what to do.

Answer 13

report it to the authorities!!!!! let them deal with it

Answer 14

meh I give it a 2 out of 10...

you tried too hard

Answer 15

My advice is for the meantime to give him space and time to recover since that's traumatic experience may have caused some psychological effect on him. You see weird as it may sound, that didn't really happen without a serious cause or perhaps an awakening call to either one of you.