This is kinda weird, but I REALLY need answers...

Question

okay, so this is gonna sound kinda weird, but I would like answers, so....

Okay, so I give my boyfriend hand jobs and stuff, right?

Well, he sounds like he likes it and stuff (moaning loud and all that.)

I just cant seem to get him to c.u.m.

And one night, he said kinda to himself "come on, why aren't I coming?" while I was giving him one...

He tells me he's close, and then like.....a couple minutes later, he's like dont worry about it...

I mean when I do it he kinda gets wet.....

I dont get it...

Are there any tips that you can give me that will make him c.u.m?

Cause I really want him to.....

Honest answers, please...

Experience, known tips, etc.

Thank you!

:O)

Answer 1

i would guess that a lot of his issues fall into 2 areas.  1.  he's anxious and has limited sexualexperiences.  2.  most likely he is masturbating himself before he's with you and doesn't have more sperm to ejaculate.  the body makes a certain amount on a daily basis  

Answer 2

You want answers from experience, I'll share what I know from my own experience. I have not been able to reach o****m from a hand job since I was a teenager. Hand jobs are exacly like a guy masturbating, only you don't know what he feels. If you are unable to maintain the same speed the entire time, you will probably not be able to finish the job. Not having a p***s yourself, you lack the muscles and endurance that most guys build from years of masturbating. With that in mind, on to the solution. Bring him close to o****m, then add a little lube. Spit is perfect. Oral stimulation isn't necessary. Just build up some salive and apply it to your hand. Give him a nice thick coat of it and get back to it. I'd bet dollars to pesos that it'll send him over the top.

Answer 3

I used to have this problem with my boyfriend too. After awhile I just chalked it up to something only a guy can do. I managed to get him to o****m by waiting for him to get close and then focussing on the head and going really fast.

But that kills my hand, it's really tiring and I got hand cramp. Now I just get him close and then let him finish himself off.